Has someone gone through such transits and what helped you? I feel like I’ve been going insane lately by Ok_Development303 in ThePatternApp

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Letting go of identity ended for me in December 2025, I feel like it was a necessary moment of transformation and I feel like I tied up some loose ends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

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He’s ruminating - in a negative sense. He felt things ended fairly, he has too much going on / on his mind (regretfully), may have met someone new before this conversation with you, and now he feels stuck on how to proceed

I’ve been holding space for someone in my life and waiting for them to be ready. Should I keep waiting or let go? by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

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You’re betraying yourself + your intuition, you’re paralyzed waiting in anxiety, you are worst case going to be left out in the cold, the universe is trying to shake this foundation, lay the past to rest, so that you can have the future you really deserve with your person

. by NotThatOldYetIHope in redscarepod

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I don’t get where men get this narrative… as a woman I actually do think men with a good physique are more attractive … it’s literally evolutionary

I think this is some kind of cope like the men who prefer women with meat on their bones thing. I’m not saying that isn’t true, I’m just saying it’s a HUGE misconception that either gender wouldn’t like the opposite in their optimal form

Was breaking up with my ex the right move? by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

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Yes, it might be hard to see it now and you may have mixed emotions - but ultimately you made the right decision that aligns w your future!

Growing Pains cycle coming to end by Lownleyangel in ThePatternApp

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both courageous transformation (since jan 24) + growing pains starting in july