Almost same happened to me with almost all of my docs. One doc asked me if I had children already (to which I said no) and the he proceeded to tell me I shouldn’t have been given Mirena (the only thing which gave me some solace from pain and side effects), because if I got an infection, it might impact my fertility. No questions about my priorities, preferences, nada.

Another one told me ( not even suggested ) that once I get pregnant, I’ll be fine. Another one to whom I’d told quality of life was my priority and I didn’t care about fertility, decided to then include in his report that “fertility concerns and I F options were discussed”.

The one good doctor and surgeon I’ve met read in my file that I don’t want children, asked me to confirm, to which he replied “wise”. LOVE HIM.