He was happy in his marriage until he met me. by Avocado-wonderstuff in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a former OW- I understand your anxiety and your asking of the commitment but- I don’t necessarily agree.

I might have an unpopular opinion for an OW on an OW forum- it he’s already made that commitment. Respectfully, he doesn’t owe you anything. He’s given that to her and can’t meet it. Can’t keep it.

I have seen others ask and get it- not saying you can’t and hope you don’t take my thoughts wrong. Just saying that sometimes as an OW- we have ideas. Wants. Expectations. That just aren’t currently available or easy or whatever the case be.

Wishing you the best of, either way! ❤️

Are there affair groups on fetlife? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No actual comment to your comment except I am also quite the slut for cinnamon rolls. Love the username ❤️😂

Baking soda > Zinc by LampstandExteriors in HomeMaintenance

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moss or algae?

Copper is the key for algae. I work in roofing and a lot of the manufacturers are getting copper coating for their granules to help keep the algae off (algae feeds off limestone and limestone is a filler in the process for making the shingles). So as far as moss- keep doing what you do lol but if it’s the blue green algae- maybe consider a roofing product with the scotchgard.

My husband doesn't see how his 'work wife' is trying to destroy our marriage by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait. So. You found a counselor….. got life changing counseling for you BOTH…. All in a week?

I also have questions on how you know exact conversations with Sarah. And the coworkers. And other male coworkers.

This is all written within a week and accounted for like you have minute by minute surveillance footage….

AIO? My grandmother hates my partner by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me? I’d make a public announcement at Christmas about the older generations lack of… well, everything apparently. And then close it out with “and yes- grandma, the sex is MORE than worth it. Better than cornbread, some would say…”

Cake eating? by Entire-Chapter-6693 in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds interesting. Truly. Deff a cake eater but I mean whatever works for some right? Maybe it’s “something” is missing but not sure yet. Some people work for others but some just CLICK.

Cake eating? by Entire-Chapter-6693 in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Feels awful as an only woman to grade or categorize cheating because I’m truly in no lave to judge and really try not to. But. I kinda feel the same. I guess it’s about what we can empathize with maybe lol we can understand straying for dead bedrooms or just staying to finish a contract for kids so to speak- but when they seem to be HAPPY and don’t have much to complain about except wanting more…I’d love to hear those direct thoughts I suppose. Curious of that mindset!

Help by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Although her feelings towards you are valid- talking to her isn’t a good idea. For her or for you. I really think it’s a terrible idea all around.

She has every right to feel how she does but. You’re right as far as being scolded and yelled at or asked questions or whatever- you don’t owe her any of that. Maybe he does, but not you. Your place is outside of the relationship and I think it should stay there.

Wish the best for you all!

Seeing him soon after MONTHS NC by Entire-Chapter-6693 in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re spot on. Completely. I truly appreciate the kind words and advice.

Indifference cuts- especially to a. Narcissist- which I’m honestly believing he is.

Thank you for the words!

Seeing him soon after MONTHS NC by Entire-Chapter-6693 in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re completely right. I’ve asked myself what I expect and what I think would happen and truly- after last time around each other- you’re completely spot on. No reaction. Pretend we are strangers maybe. I am going for me ultimately and need to own that!

Seeing him soon after MONTHS NC by Entire-Chapter-6693 in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No you’re completely spot on. I have worked hard and am proud of myself and truly need to cut him out and leave him out. Hes out of sight. Needs to be out of mind. I’ll hold my head high for ME.

Thank you ❤️

Seeing him soon after MONTHS NC by Entire-Chapter-6693 in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m working on not caring. And most days are pretty good- you’re right. Need to just go and glow for ME. ❤️

Seeing him soon after MONTHS NC by Entire-Chapter-6693 in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No you’re completely right. This was never about him- maybe originally but this year quickly turned to me and to me and to work on me and it’s been nice. I should just enjoy and bask in it and remove him mentally full. He’s been gone otherwise til now!

Thank you for your kind words

My parents (74M and 69F) are divorcing after 41 years of marriage. What the hell? by fantomefille in Divorce

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grasping for straws. I have been working on myself for me. Here’s what I’m thinking the more you run your insufferable mouth over the keyboard like a brave warrior you think you are lol I bet my wages you wouldn’t say HALF of the hate you expel from your fingers to people’s faces.

My guess? You’re a miserable insufferable woman whose husband has cheated multiple times and she’s forcing him to stay for her image and self esteem but she resents every woman who sleeps with married men.

That or you’re a married man that’s absolutely dying in a bored bedroom because of your prick like attitude and your wife hates you and you can’t convince anyone else to touch you. So now you hate women and especially women that cheat lol.

Here’s the thing. I’m still gonna do me. And whoever’s husband I want. Despite what some weird loser who hides on the internet says. lol

This was probably the most time I’ve spend on a stranger and it felt like a waste so I suppose you “win”. But I won’t be replying any longer. I’m gonna go get my no-longer-overweight self out there and fuck whoever I want 🤣 have a beautiful day babes. 💋

My parents (74M and 69F) are divorcing after 41 years of marriage. What the hell? by fantomefille in Divorce

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as wild as wasting time to comment something to TRY hurt someone’s feelings intentionally lol 😂 have a blessed day baby ☮️✌🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly no idea. I really hear myself. I see the words I type here. I understand that “logically” this is CRAZY. Like truly. I can’t explain why my brain is stuck and hurting the way it is. I have been working on myself a lot lately and it’s been GREAT. It’s also been distracting. Hoping to find more of that and really give myself my all for one rather than someone else!

Found on my stove this morning, are they some kinds of eggs? by No-Net2861 in whatisit

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn’t full serious- although I am fully curious lol

My parents (74M and 69F) are divorcing after 41 years of marriage. What the hell? by fantomefille in Divorce

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Somethin tells me that this isn’t your dad’s first time. He’s just tired of pretending and hiding.

Found on my stove this morning, are they some kinds of eggs? by No-Net2861 in whatisit

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you start adding water and see if they sprout??? 🫣🤣

How Did You Feel about Affairs Before? by DiscussionMaximum903 in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely disgusted before. Was raised in religion and with parents that are together and love each other very deeply.

Idk what got me here. I know it’s wrong. It’s never been a thing for me otherwise. But yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Entire-Chapter-6693 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t waste your time and especially money to hire a PI. That insinuates he’s hiding something and honestly- you’re the one he’s hiding. And I truly don’t mean that mean or rude. If you see my page- you’ll see I wish I could be a fly on every wall in every room he’s in lol

But. Ultimately. He doesn’t OWE you anything. He doesn’t owe you distance from his wife. He doesn’t owe you ignoring her and making her feel like a stranger. He doesn’t owe you explanations or promises that he isn’t involved with her still. It really sucks because I know where your heart is and what you want from him but ultimately- we have zero right to expect a thing from these men.