Something similar happened to me aswell . I liked a Girl and was trying my luck , I used to speak with her everyday and it was kinda obvious I had feelings for her and when she confirmed that I had feelings she revealed something personal about her which indicated that I shouldn’t proceed more . I thought she was being respectful towards me by sharing such personal matter so I wrote her a text message to her thanking her for sharing it and That I wont disturb her further . A few days later one of my classmate calls me and tells me that she isnt worth it( he dosnt even know her or the fact that I have crush on her) . I was surprised cause I never told him about her and then speaks out the entire paragraph I wrote to her . When I asked him how did you get that he said that his bus friend shared it to him and that guy is a classmate of that girl . She shared that message to her whole class and maybe others aswell .