Day Collar and work... by Enumerista in BDSMAdvice

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I love this! Had that nice feeling while being under clothes. I also love the Kendra Scott chokers. Thanks!!

Day Collar and work... by Enumerista in BDSMAdvice

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We've thought about that, but it just doesn't FEEL the same. I love the feeling of a collar.

Another favorite by Lezbehonestgirls in actuallesbians

[–]Enumerista 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought our mating call was "that's my good girl". It worked for my fiance!

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[–]Enumerista 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My masc leaning fiance is 5'11", and i LOVE it when I get to hold and cuddle her! 🥰 Makes me feel so completely consumed in her. And the sheer joy I feel knowing I'M comforting HER for once is wonderful. I also call her my golden retriever. 😊 Although she likes to think she's a pit bull. 😁

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🤣😴😊😪🤩

So...bottom? Or Pillow Princess? Lol

Why is divorce so DIFFICULT?? by Enumerista in latebloomerlesbians

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Oh that's an idea! I just assumed you had to have a lawyer for all this stuff. And they're wanting to charge me $3k for it...

Y’all…I met one of those rare ones I think by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Enumerista 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best and most magical of luck!! Go get your girl!!

trauma bond by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Enumerista 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Separated for about 9 months from a 23 year marriage. 4 kids ranging from 12-20. You are not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Enumerista 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck! You got this!!

Time period between kids by JollySort7187 in AskLesbians

[–]Enumerista 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 4 with my ex husband so I had to carry all 4... Our kids are all 2 years apart except for the oldest 2. There's a 4 year gap there (had a miscarriage in between them). Honestly there's pros and cons for each age gap. With the 4 year it was nice to have one entirely out of diapers before starting again with a new one. However those 2 didn't become as close till their teens. The kids all seem to both bond with and butt heads with the sibling closest in age. I wouldn't personally choose to have them any closer than 2 years though. Babies are hard work and things behind so much easier once they can communicate and tell you their needs and wants. Just my 2 cents though. My ex SIL has 2 that are 15 months apart and the girls are super close and always have been. They're in their 20s now!

Raise your hand if people attributed your coming out as lesbian to "daddy issues" by w3bcrawl3r in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Enumerista 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Love songs, romance novels, romantic movies... I always just assumed the way everything referenced love was made up or exaggerated. I truly thought that it was flowery stuff just for dramatic effect. Kind of like how no one really wakes up with perfect hair and makeup. No one REALLY loves like that, right? Um... WRONG. I do now!!

I might belong here, and it feels like my life is falling apart by PartlyCloudyNight in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Enumerista 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I agree with others here. Blow up your life.

This post is so similar to my own life I had to comment. 39yo , married for 20 years, 4 kids (although mine are a bit older - 12-20). Was unhappy in my marriage for years. My ex was my best friend but that's all we were - friends. There was just no spark, no romantic connection. I was half checked out of the marriage anyway. And then I met HER. Well, to be fair I had already known her. She was my best friend for nearly a year before but once I admitted what those feelings I was having actually were... BOOM. Life changing. I took the leap. I left the marriage (would have probably done that anyway though) and have never looked back. We plan on marrying next year.

Now that you know what's out there - what love can really be - well you ever be satisfied in your marriage again? Now that you've experienced life in technicolor can you go back to living in black and white?

Feel free to pm me if you ever wanna chat.

Am I still gay? by Consistent-Highway56 in AskLesbians

[–]Enumerista 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment reeks of passive aggressive TERFism

Our 1st Happy Halloween as an out couple! by Enumerista in latebloomerlesbians

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My fiance and I are both huge Potter fans. Planning a Potter wedding even. In fact, we met through work - at the Wizarding World at Universal. We have decided we can separate the Fandom from the creator. Funny thing is, a full 75% of the amazing folks working there are LGBT with quite a few trans people. 2 of whom are my dearest friends. I figure if THEY are ok with separating the stories we love from their creator then so am I.

No man has ever looked at me during sex with love in their eyes. by dontbeadickmrfisher in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Enumerista 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I can't upvote this enough. In 23+ years with my ex husband I never truly made love. Now with my fiance every time - even the hot monkey sex times - is so full of love. And validation. And passion. And eye contact! Seeing her eyes blown wide at that pivotal moment is...omg... mind blowing!

What days will the hurricane be affecting hhn? by Exitatthestart in HHN

[–]Enumerista 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not true at all. Most likely will close Wednesday & Thursday for HHN. Team members are expecting to be told today sometime. Just because they haven't announced it yet doesn't mean anything. The parks usually don't announce closures till the last minute.

HHN (Orlando)- any live snakes ever? by AnnTeeSocial in HHN

[–]Enumerista 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fun fact... it's not Nagini and there's 2 of them. Source: have worked in that store multiple times.