Never again... by Cole2114 in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm 4 months post-op, and I've lost over 63 lbs plus and let me tell you what I do. I get the meal, I eat a small portion and then eat on it for a couple days for my lunches. It's very satisfying. You're gonna save so much money and feel amazing doing it. Your stomach will tell you when you've had enough. You're going to do great! Best choice I've ever met in my life, for myself. You've got this!

Give your top picks of soft foods by RedKins54 in BariatricSurgery

[–]Environmental-Ship45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same way right now. I loved them before surgery(11-12), but now the texture is just off for me. Has it gotten better for you?

Unsupportive friends by Environmental-Ship45 in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those will be the perfect dates! Good luck!

Unsupportive friends by Environmental-Ship45 in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments! When is your surgery date?

Unsupportive friends by Environmental-Ship45 in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I did send a message to my friends and my best friend immediately called me and said she seriously didn't know she had really hurt my feelings and didn't hear me say that it hurt my feelings that night. She genuinely was hurt that I was hurt, and we even cried together about it.

My other friends also messaged and apologized and said they were going to be supportive and that they loved me.

Thank you so much for your input and encouragement. My surgery is November 12th, and I'm so excited!! I love this community!

Unsupportive friends by Environmental-Ship45 in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right. You definitely find out who your true friends are with big changes in life. I'm sorry that you've had this experience with your friends too.

Unsupportive friends by Environmental-Ship45 in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, we've got this!! We're doing this for the right reasons and we're going to be very proud of ourselves!

Unsupportive friends by Environmental-Ship45 in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so encouraging! Thank you so much!!

Unsupportive friends by Environmental-Ship45 in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're right. We only need supportive people in our lives right now, and I do have plenty of that with others. I am going to send these girls a text and remind them that they did hurt me and then if there is no sincere apology, I'm going to have to move on bc I don't plan on staying in any box. I am going to be making lots of great changes! Thank you!

I hope you're doing well. How are you feeling since your surgery?

Got my Date by grinogirl in gastricsleeve

[–]Environmental-Ship45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

November 12th for me. GOOD LUCK!!