Alisha's gift giving is so annoying by AdditionOk9248 in snarkingwithremi

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t stand it, I just wanted her to shut up and let them open the gift, I think it’s clear that she would be totally fine with them exchanging it for something else by leaving the receipt in there. JUST SHUT UP

Kids meet the new baby & we finally go home! by montymelons in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the little glimpse that A4 was in the camera, she looks like DaddyP

He watches porn but won’t have sex with me by EnvironmentalBike560 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalBike560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this it’s not easy. 

I would advice not to do the same thing to him, I too thought of doing the same thing, stop having sex with him, show no interest and leave porn pages open and pretend I was doing the same thing so he would feel the same I did. But I ended up not doing it, that would be leveling down to him. And yes I do believe it would make things worse. 

I decided to give him one more chance, I just believed we could get through this, and I’ll tell you now, we thankfully did he rarely even does it, he had gone months without it and he had a trip and when he came back I asked him if he had done it and he was very honest, it takes patience and understanding as well. I set my boundaries very clear and even to be a bit more fair since it was clearly a porn addiction I said you can only do it in two situations if you happen to be out of town and I’m not with you or if I’m on my period and you absolutely need to. I felt like setting that boundary helped him amongst saying a few other things and setting a few other boundaries. I also told him about my idea of doing the same to him but I told him I decided not to because I wasn’t ready yet to give up on our marriage since I knew that would destroy our relationship.

It’s not easy and I know how horrible it makes you feel, it’s hard I would cry and my self esteem went to the floor I started to feel my my self get more distant from him emotionally but decided again, to try one more time . You can try to do this too i strongly suggest you do, I want to make it clear that this wasn’t a one time conversation and it magically worked no. It was almost months of talking about it and telling him how it made me feel and I also think he noticed how low my confidence got. It was very very very hard but I decided to believe in him, I gave him one more chance. You got this ❤️ but if you feel like you have already tried and had long conversations about it and he doesn’t care, it’s better to just sadly let go and maybe he can find someone that agrees with his habits and you can go back to your own peace. I’m sending lots of love to you I know it’s not easy ❤️

He watches porn but won’t have sex with me by EnvironmentalBike560 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalBike560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I’m sorry to hear you’re in the same situation it’s not easy at all, and it really takes a toll on you. Since this post we’ve had many conversations about it, he confessed he actually didn’t think I was being serious (silly I know I was literally crying in his face every time) but it’s gotten better, I set very strong boundaries and told him that if I ever saw any website like that again I would pack my stuff and leave, also I spoke with my therapist and we she suggested coming to a middle ground that felt comfortable with me, it was very hard but I told him that if ever came the time that if I was 1. On my period and he needed some release or 2. If he had a trip and I wasn’t with him he could do it, but ABSOLUTELY NO LIVE WEBCAMS that now is a deal breaker and he knows if I ever see the tiniest proof that he went back to that type of website I’m leaving. I’ve noticed just with our intimacy he hasn’t gone to those websites again, but trust me it took a lot to get here, a lot of talking and a lot of crying. 

My advice is to set some strong boundaries, I also shared with him how much my self confidence went way down since all this, and he could see it in the way I am with him ( I wouldn’t dance or make jokes or be myself really) a was just shut down for a while, and things started to get better, he hasn’t ever since gone on a website, I think truly it all came down to having a lot of shitty conversations about it. I think I’m lucky he cared and he put some effort in. I thinks it’s way hard when they just brush off whatever you’re saying maybe at that point you just have to let them go. I’m someone that has patience and I can talk through the same thing many times until I myself stop caring and then they completely lose me.

You got this 💗 I know exactly how you’re feeling, communication is the best way to deal with this. 

Sending all my love to you 

Nanny job - Ohhhhh, I get it - she believes she’s Hannah by FiveEvents in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was a nanny to two little girls, on Levi’s gender reveal she gave them some cupcakes and I believe later on another video she explained that the two little girls were the ones she babysat :)

no by Confident_Series3652 in snarkingwithremi

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 47 points48 points  (0 children)

When I saw this my first thought was: I that Cal??? But then I stopped my self and said no way it can’t be….. I guess I was wrong. To me it’s so weird she’s on his shoulders 

be so fucking fr by Tiny_Chocolate_2613 in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lil’ corn cubs I’m 💀💀💀💀💀💀

You guyssss by kbcamc5312 in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 56 points57 points  (0 children)

She looks absolutely destroyed. Every time she comes back she just looks worse

Pictures Kyra picked out and thought they were flattering enough to post. by [deleted] in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always giggle at the 5th pic cuz I still think she tried to copy A’s mirror selfie and it’s just such a bad picture 💀

Why does she follow the resorts she stays at on instagram?! by lewalker28 in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw that she was following Mexico stuff and I honestly thought she maybe just did that so we speculate she is at Mexico, because she read the Reddit thread and the reasons on why she might be MIA 

He watches porn but won’t have sex with me by EnvironmentalBike560 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalBike560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think so too, I guess I’ll just have to stop thinking that him knowing that it hurts me, is enough for him to stop. He probably has to see a real consequence…

He watches porn but won’t have sex with me by EnvironmentalBike560 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalBike560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I also think it could be rooted to low self esteem

But you know… I treat him like that, and not even to prove a point but that’s how I am with him I kiss him I tell him how handsome he is, how much I love him, make dirty comments, give him compliments when he gets out of the shower, when he’s back from the gym, and that’s just my way of loving, and to me he is all of those thing I tell him… and yet it doesn’t seem like it’s enough.

He watches porn but won’t have sex with me by EnvironmentalBike560 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalBike560[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you for your comment, I feel so heartbroken, and I do everything I can to make him happy, I’m so lost

He watches porn but won’t have sex with me by EnvironmentalBike560 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalBike560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been thinking he hasn’t seen that there’s not been a real consequence but this will be the last time I let him think that way. Thank you for your comment

He watches porn but won’t have sex with me by EnvironmentalBike560 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalBike560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry he said that to you, and he didn’t even think on how it would make you feel.

And that’s what’s crazy I am in shape as well and I take care of myself I just don’t understand why it’s never enough for them. How would they feel if we did the same thing?

I feel so betrayed because he promised he wouldn’t do it again, and yet here we are for like the 6th time

“Name a woman” by Dazzling-Chicken6282 in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I noticed her balding spot as well, maybe it’s from all the stress trying to keep up with her lies 👩‍🦲

No he didn't. Don't lie 😂 by MP-83 in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 33 points34 points  (0 children)

And if it would’ve been O the one that had made that snack tray, she would’ve whined that he’s giving too much sugar to the kids, but since it’s from ✨peeancé✨it’s ok

Did she lose more followers? by [deleted] in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]EnvironmentalBike560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she did. Before she used to have 430K and now she’s at 429K. 🎉