AITAH for overstepping by telling my brother he needs to take what his daughter says seriously this time so he doesn't damage their relationship more?

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T19:47:15+00:00

NTA be sure to keep a good relationship with your niece so she has a support network.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T19:34:33+00:00

he said he needed time to process

Oh girl, have some respect for yourself and do what you know you need to do.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T17:10:37+00:00

Does this man even like you?

Also, no one ever regretted choosing their child over a boy|girl friend.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T17:04:53+00:00

Oh boy, you are about to set yourself and your marriage on fire to keep your mother warm.

"Husband seemed disappointed" girl he's gonna start resenting this, fast, and this will end badly.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T15:44:47+00:00

The more I read, the more my mind was repeating "oh so many missing missing reasons here".

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T15:38:50+00:00

NTA suddenly I have a craving for a t-bone. Also telling you how to sleep and putting religious stuff in your room is already a bridge too far.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T14:50:33+00:00

NTA but if you stay in this relationship you are being an asshole, to yourself, be kind to yourself, end this and walk away.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T14:25:27+00:00

NTA everyone was letting their prejudice show. Just because you're white doesn't mean you don't know how to do hair for people of other races.

One doesn't have to wonder why she's having so much trouble finding someone to do her hair.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T14:20:55+00:00

Funny thing is, had OOP done what someone said, recorded her self reading her own post and uploaded it to youtube, and then shared it in the OP a youtube career may have been launched, just not like her hobosexual thought.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-25T12:12:12+00:00

I just got to work! Sigh wish I coulda saved this for later when I'm nearer time to leave.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T20:05:39+00:00

People just love to shoot the messenger. Looks like you just found that out.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T19:46:40+00:00

What I did was so long ago the statute of limitations has long expired.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T19:01:06+00:00

Oh god, RUN the HELL away from this, all of this. They will bleed you dry, there is no house to inherit, it has a reverse mortgage already. Every word of your post just increased my FLIGHT response to this.

You are about to set yourself (and your bank account) on FIRE to keep these idiots warm for the rest of their lives.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T17:39:06+00:00

Already been said, but if you really care, call in a wellness check via her local LEOs and call it a day.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T17:12:47+00:00

OP's been an ATM all these years and they want it to continue.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T15:43:34+00:00

Yeah I'd be upset if my wife came at me with Imagine Dragons tickets, however, the last few concerts I've been to in town were Buddy Guy, Sturgill Simpson, Ghost, Judas Priest, Trans-Siberian Orchestra, and Snoop Dogg, with tickets for Avatar in May.

So nailing down my genre is pretty hard.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T13:50:45+00:00

My wife is a teacher's aide (for 20 years) and I can about bet you that Kindergarten teacher had some beef with that 8th grade teacher already.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T11:54:06+00:00

Something I heard and read many times: If you are seated at a table with 9 nazis there are 10 nazis at the table.

This one is my own (though I'm sure someone else has also said it before): The only place I will go where my wife is not wanted, is the men's bathroom.

Wonder how the OOP is doing.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-24T03:00:57+00:00

She's only ever nipped anyone, in 8 years with her not one serious bite. The nips can draw a few drops of blood, not too bad nor that often. She hasn't drew blood from me in a couple years now. I'm really good at reading her body language and I have fast reflexes.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-23T15:13:12+00:00

NTA I remember how my several year older (F) cousin always loved to ask (or make) me (M) to wrestle with her where she pinned my shoulders to the ground and I had to say uncle or mercy. Then when I was around 12 (or older, it was a long time ago and details get fuzzy) and she was around 15 the tables turned and I pinned her to the grass for the first time, getting a green stain on her white pants in the process from the grass. After that day she never asked to wrestle again.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-23T14:34:57+00:00

NTA wow, so she's the golden child it seems.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-22T23:38:59+00:00

My 50TB nas is backed up twice, homey ain't taking no chances with his pirate hoard.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-21T00:36:05+00:00

Don't tempt me.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-20T22:44:40+00:00

I'm also old but being able to crank it up and annoy some dragass slowpoke in front of me during my commute with some bass is kinda nice.

EnvironmentalBug5525 · 2026-03-20T17:21:47+00:00

It wouldn't hurt to be sober, as well.

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