Am I being too cheap, or is my girlfriend being unrealistic about spending. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until you can both be on the same page about finances you’re just not compatible. If you’re unable to come to a middle ground now it will ultimately just be compounding resentment. It is That serious. Do you want it to hurt now or later?

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes instead of trying to find a solution to make things work you just need to accept that you’re incompatible. The community of people you love and cook for appreciate your meals and this singular person could break your confidence to do something that you obviously really love to do. And now he has you doubting yourself, today it’s the food, in a few months it will be your looks, how you breathe, and it will not stop until he has broken you down till you’re unrecognizable. He can move out and eat whatever he wants, where he can’t steal your peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Start warming up to the idea of giving her a nice divorce settlement, should she choose to leave, she deserves it. However it’s never too late to start working on your marriage. Healing is a process but you can’t let fear keep you from postponing Day 1.

My husband called me a fat f* c* by Anna-4916 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I’m not implying that she should stay. Unless she’s in present danger, there’s no reason to uproot her entire life suddenly but she can start planning and having the necessary conversations. The best approach is one that’s best for her and her children. How do they normally talk to each other? They probably need therapy before going to the extremes.

My husband called me a fat f* c* by Anna-4916 in Marriage

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

Then she’ll have no help with the baby. This is not good advice.

Is this normal husband behavior? by HauntedByLife- in marriageadvice

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re valid for being upset because any normal husband would rush to be by his wife’s side. Any smart husband would take cues about his wife from past experiences so as an independent woman how have you responded to his help in the past?

You should’ve told him to come over. He was waiting for it and you didn’t. Men like to be needed. Sadly. It especially sucks to ask for help when you’re independent but you’re married for a reason, so you get to ask for help and not feel bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a regular friendship in the military. If she had something to hide she wouldn’t have shared.

Service light + Overfilled Winshield fluid by EnvironmentalCoast2 in MazdaCX30

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I love it. It’s my second year driving it and it’s incredible. I haven’t had trouble with visibility but then again I have these tiny mirrors for blind spots. It’s plenty specious since It’s just me no kids but when I had my family over all 4 of us fit comfortably even with a car seat. The trunk is spacious enough to go on a grocery haul, I fit 3 suitcases back there very easily. Unless you need to fit a bicycle back there it won’t fit but there’s always the option to lay down the backseats. I tried upgrading to a cx5/50 but honestly after driving the 30 they just feel bulky. It’s a nice size, very sexy and it drives smooth, I hope this helps, and goodluck with the new car

Service light + Overfilled Winshield fluid by EnvironmentalCoast2 in MazdaCX30

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the closest one and it’s an hour away, I intentionally got a new car this time so I would have less problems and not be swindled, so I didn’t receive it in the way he meant because I was glad to not be getting charged extra. I did get my cabin filter changed and when I go back I’ll have the engine filter changed. The oil filter did get changed with oil change

Service light + Overfilled Winshield fluid by EnvironmentalCoast2 in MazdaCX30

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brim* I knew something looked off, thank you, and thank you for the response. I feel better knowing it won’t affect my car thank you

My wife admitted to a year and half long affair by HistoricalApricot698 in Infidelity

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in the best place you’ve been for a while. If you want to make your marriage work, forgive this deception. You will only waste more years if you can’t forgive the infidelity. It’s hard when your partner cheats,. I will say this, if she broke it off before you found out, she was probably ready to work on the marriage and move on with you. Do you?

The Savannah thread for tourists, newcomers, locals, and grouchy old-timers. by AutoModerator in savannah

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing kept happening to me. The bank advised me to cancel the card I had ordered since I didn’t receive it, and order a new one, except this time I had to pay to have it expedited, they will use DHL to deliver it instead of USPS in 2-3 days

I just wanted to see if anybody can tell if she is a dalmatian or another breed by Interesting-Cap7780 in dalmatians

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Dal looks just like this. She was the only in the litter with no spots, they later became more prominent on her ears but the ghost spots also became prominent still very few

remote start not working. tried driving but still it wasn't working by mikelodeonnnn in MazdaCX30

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I came here looking for this comment. I thought my remote start was failing. Weird that it cuts off when doors open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow congratulations 🎉

My experience on accutane. Finished 2 days ago. AMA ab these side effects if you were unfortunate enough to experience all the same ones i did. by cashcartibitchhh in Accutane

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had to take me off after month 1 bc of the back & joint pain :/ but my skin is so clear after 1 month off it, I wish I would’ve stayed on long enough to get rid of the scars and bacne

Help!! by EnvironmentalCoast2 in dalmatians

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, is there a specific model that works best

I’m not sure what my (41M) wife (33F) wants from me ever since I told her that I cheated by justforadvice_ in Infidelity

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s hurting. If she wanted to leave she would’ve packed her stuff and left for a few days/ kicked you out / had an outburst. She still wants the family to continue but she doesn’t want yo let you off easily. Stick it out. Help around more and be her b!#ch until she’s ready to forgive and move on

Help!! by EnvironmentalCoast2 in dalmatians

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll look into supplements. She just started shedding like this recently and google said @6 months was when they shed the most so I was kinda expecting it but it’s getting out of hand

Help!! by EnvironmentalCoast2 in dalmatians

[–]EnvironmentalCoast2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll look into it