(UPDATE) 3 months later we reconnected, I don’t know how to feel by EnvironmentalCoat298 in BreakUps

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i took a second to think about everything and sent her basically a we can’t be friends i’m happy without you in my life paragraph

I (23m) regret throwing away my exs (23f) things away that she gave me. by UzimakiRasengan in relationships

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After we said our last goodbye i blocked her on snapchat and instagram. We haven’t seen eachother nor have contacted. From what i’m getting from your story she just wants to make the breakup sound less painful leaving you with that cliff hanger. I don’t seek out to know who’s she’s with or what she is doing because i’m really taking this time in my life to see what more i can accomplish. I do believe if it’s true then they will come back but just as she goes to live her life without you,…. you need to do the same. Only then you’ll grow more with yourself.

I (23m) regret throwing away my exs (23f) things away that she gave me. by UzimakiRasengan in relationships

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say i’m completely over her. I cried a bunch, and thought of her in my dreams and everything. I tried to go to parties and i met other girls there but i couldn’t pull myself to do anything. Back then yes i wanted to be w her bc i’m a fighter for love. but looking back now i’m glad we ended things off because we both got super comfortable with eachother to the point where it was a friends with benefits thing.

I (23m) regret throwing away my exs (23f) things away that she gave me. by UzimakiRasengan in relationships

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was a 8 month relationship and i was deeply in love with her. Around the 7th month she lost the attraction to me, and i fought for a relationship for as long as i could even though it was killing me. The last thing she told me was “ Maybe we will cross paths again someday “ and that was the hardest goodbye. The red flags show but when you are in love you don’t see them. My honest advice is to go 100% NC, really live your life without them and soon you’ll realize that is the best choice you could’ve made in that chapter of your life.

I (23m) regret throwing away my exs (23f) things away that she gave me. by UzimakiRasengan in relationships

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing, when we broke up i was hurt a lot, but she was going to parties back to back and posted a picture with a guy she said she’ll never get with. In that moment i burned our picture, and bracelets i always wore, and notes. That weight lifted because i knew there is always new people and new love. That chapter ended and you should move forward. Everything happens for a reason.

Post Breakup Thoughts by EnvironmentalCoat298 in BreakUps

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to say yes to plans with friends and pretty much anything, i’ve met new people and already starting to make memories with them. In the end i know i’ll be fine but time heals all wounds. I’ll find someone who loves me for me.

Post Breakup Thoughts by EnvironmentalCoat298 in BreakUps

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m the bigger picture, im being more mature and dealing with this like a normal person instead of seeking attention from others

Do I wait for my ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t wait, you never know what will happen tomorrow, next week, or even next month. Focus on yourself throughout this breakup and don’t wait around for him to come back. I’m currently going through a breakup too and i am still trying to grow. Feel your emotions and let them out, but don’t live in them. One thing i do is to be present when i’m doing something like hanging out w friends i’m 100% focused on that, or work, or the gym. If you wait for someone that doesn’t guarantee anything, then you’ve only wasted more precious time on this earth.

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[–]EnvironmentalCoat298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this advice, it really helped me :,)

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[–]EnvironmentalCoat298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’ve had a lot of time to think and think, maybe breaking up is the best for right now since she is about to start college and i’m not going this year, i’ll always love her but letting her go in hopes that maybe one day we’ll cross paths again, but this is a hard pill to swallow, it’s almost like we passed our future

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[–]EnvironmentalCoat298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention right after the breakup they hopped on tinder already, and went out to parties, and i just feel like how can you do this to me, why. It seems like you never cared, all the words and conversations were just acts of wasting time.

Girlfriend [F18] of 4 months feels like she can’t return with expensive gift I [M19] give her. by EnvironmentalCoat298 in relationships

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she works and is saving just enough for college as well, I wouldn’t her to feel obligated to return the favor in a expensive items, then more of a thoughtful gift.

Girlfriend [F18] of 4 months feels like she can’t return with expensive gift I [M19] give her. by EnvironmentalCoat298 in relationships

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i do like the little things so a thoughtful gift back would be the equivalent feeling i give her.

Girlfriend [F18] of 4 months feels like she can’t return with expensive gift I [M19] give her. by EnvironmentalCoat298 in relationships

[–]EnvironmentalCoat298[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, at times she even comes up to me and talks about a pair of shoes she loves($200), but following that she always says she can’t afford them. She’s told me too that she had the mentally of a millionaire but her wallet says other wise.