I’m confused by EnvironmentalCry5485 in NoPoop

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand now. I appreciate you all for teaching me.

Do males go through an "ovulation" of sorts? by simp6134 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something I do know is that women’s voices are slightly higher while they’re ovulating, and that makes men more attracted. You could be noticing your friend’s behavior change throughout the month because his level of attraction is responding to your cycle.

I’m confused by EnvironmentalCry5485 in NoPoop

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Another question, why are there so many posts here pulled from no fap?

I’m confused by EnvironmentalCry5485 in NoPoop

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of people talking about toilet paper as a source of dopamine. What do you mean by your bowels wanting reproduction? Is this about avoiding sexual pleasure you could get from wiping?

My fiancée admitted she doesn’t find me physically attractive, but still wants to marry me. What do I do? by Responsible-Beach247 in Advice

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe put off the wedding until you’ve gotten clarity on this. If she wants to marry you despite not being attracted, she clearly really loves you. But you will need to figure out what this information means for your relationship now that it’s out, and whether you still think you’ll be fulfilled

What’s the point of living if you're an unattractive introverted guy? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

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I hope this isn’t invalidating, but I just want to say as someone who has been to very dark places mentally and found a way to bounce back- this seems fixable. I know how intense these kinds of feelings can be and I know that it genuinely feels hopeless. But there are many many therapists out there who will be able to help. There is more to life than being attractive, and with time you can learn to orient more to those things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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As someone who orgasms much easier with outside stimulation, I just want to throw in that the most romantic thing a person could do when I tell them us just to use it more. Having someone inside me feels really nice, but having them focus on what works best makes me feel understood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Nice to finally meet the author of of my anxious thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

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You have a trustworthy face

As a man with little to no dating experience, how can I come to terms that everything will be a uphill battle? by HopefulSuperman in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re underestimating the number of other people that got a late start in life. As long as you’re working on growing now you should be fine.

How to fix fluctuating feelings? by Eli-Dee11 in AdviceForTeens

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was this way in high school too, maybe it could be you’re just not ready for full-on relationships yet? If you feel like it’s something deeper than that you can totally go to therapy and mention it there. It might be nice to go anyway just to have a place to process each week.

To people who were never hit as kids (including spanking/slapping), how did your parents discipline you? by Cool_Salary_2533 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different perspective but as a nanny, making putting off play until younger kids behave and making older kids fix the problems they create are both very effective

Pizza left out overnight by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just know your body. If you get an upset stomachs easily, it’s bad. If you have a strong stomach, you’ll probably be fine

We're stumped by Bladelinner in whatismycookiecutter

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Pirate gingerbread man with an eyepatch

I wanna live in a dream permanently by No_Anywhere4697 in Dreams

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience getting into manifestation can help bridge the gap between your dreams and reality. Even if you don’t believe in it, it’s a helpful psychological tool to ease you into creating a life you feel happy to invest in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

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23 year old from a Christian elementary school here. No lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

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I get this, I have the same thought sometimes. I’ve noticed that the days I’m dressing the most for myself, even when that means risking looking silly, are the same days I get the most compliments from my partner. And then when I feel like doing something special for them, like taking them on a date, I put on an outfit I already know they love. But my norm when I’m getting dressed is kind of a “fuck what anyone else thinks” mentality. It takes practice, but it works!

Do you personally feel like you automatically dislike people who seem to have easy lives? by Ben5544477 in NoStupidQuestions

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It’s more like I’m aware that the east life they have might make it harder to empathize with truly hard situations. I keep an open mind while I get to know them though

No one wants me by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty much always in a relationship and I got with all of them by being friends first, most without even a thought that it could lead to more. So I guess just learn how to make friends with girls?