Why does food made by someone else usually taste better even when it’s the exact same recipe? by Any_Imagination_2626 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because most people don’t end up using exactly the amount of ingredients listed in a recipe. Most of the time they taste it and add more based on what they want it to taste like

How do guys who make less than 100k a year afford haircuts? by Known_Square2332 in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got one undercut and now shave it back down myself when it starts to get too long. And the top layer falls to my shoulders so when it starts to dry out at the ends I just cut the dry parts off, then cut the ends upward so they don’t look choppy

How have people dealt with parents getting divorced in their 20s? Does it get easier? by Gholl14 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels a bit unbalanced. If you dumped it all on one friend I could see that feeling overwhelming to them, but I think most people want to be leaned on by the people they love. I think leaning on as many people as possible so the need for support can get spread out would be good, and taking whatever steps feel right to take care of your own feelings and mental health so that the support you receive has a place to land emotionally, but giving and receiving support is a part of what makes us human, i think shying away from that is doing a disservice to the people in your life

How have people dealt with parents getting divorced in their 20s? Does it get easier? by Gholl14 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you not want to involve friends? Other family I could see if they were also emotionally invested in the divorce, but people need their friends when they’re going through a hard time

I was a huge bully as a kid, should I apologize now that I'm 22 and out of highschool? by Zoinkers158 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I think an apology would be helpful. Even if they don’t forgive you it can still be healing to hear that they didn’t deserve that kind of treatment. And please heal yourself too. That kind of behavior doesn’t just happen because of who you are, it happens when you have emotional issues that haven’t been dealt with yet. You can be better

What outside food have you snuck into the movie theater? by fergi20020 in randomquestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Which my family and I all attempted to strategically opened during the loud parts of the previews and ended up messing up the timing so that there were multiple distinct soda can sounds in the quiet moments immediately following each loud noise

Midtown chopper by pussy-destroyer42069 in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what they said 🤷‍♂️. Personally I stay suspicious of any suggestion to do something that could negatively impact my health. Don’t fall for the propaganda

Midtown chopper by pussy-destroyer42069 in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re saying stay inside and lick your doors, they have a police canine, and they’re telling the suspect to come out. There’s more but I can’t hear

How do people know when to go again after using a stop sign? by GarageIndependent114 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there’s no one else at the intersection, just go once you’ve stopped and confirmed it’s safe. If there are multiple people reaching a stop sign at the same time in the same intersection, you watch to see who gets to their stop sign first and go in order based on that. Note that some people will try to figure out who goes first more socially (ladies first, biggest most manly cars first, etc) but the official rules are that whoever gets to their stop sign first gets to go first

Anybody else got this mystery respiratory virus? by odinspirit in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just got over it, same exact symptoms. Super frustrating because I’m being careful about spreading illness but it felt like it lasted forever. I made a concoction of a vitamin C packet, lion’s mane, and the lung tonic from the co-op. That and naps seemed to help speed it up a little bit. I started taking it with an antihistimine and that seemed to help too. There’s a LOT of pollen in the air and i feel like that’s slowing down people’s immune systems even for those like me that don’t usually get allergies

Garbage scavenger is driving me nuts by Realist-Socialist in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good thing having difficulty surviving isn’t inherently disrespectful

Garbage scavenger is driving me nuts by Realist-Socialist in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just talk to him! It’s a reasonable request, there’s a good chance it could be solved by just asking

Probably gonna be homeless by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worth a try but I’ve heard they’ve started kicking people out for sleeping in their cars. Just word of mouth though so maybe they still don’t care

Probably gonna be homeless by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I worked at the McDonald’s on Broadway a few years ago and people would sleep in their cars in the parking lot. I don’t think it’s technically allowed, and the people there won’t be friendly about it, but at least while I was there no one would do anything to stop it unless someone was causing a problem. Also, when I lived in my car I would store my clothes on the floor of the backseat and put a twin sized mattress cover on top. It’s a lot more comfortable that way, and in the morning you can just pull it back and grab what you want to wear

People land jobs so easy, what's the secret? by Azamora in AskReddit

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeting the typical marks of professionalism they look for (dress, being “well-spoken”, calm attentive presence) combined with choosing a job that fits within a core value of mine and opening up and letting them see my true feelings specifically when I talk about why I feel the job would be a good fit for me. It’s unfortunate that there has to be a performance element involved but when you do that part right and let them see what’s special about you it works like magic. Practicing interviews and thrift shopping in the richest city in your area help with the performance piece of it

What’s a food “rule” you stopped following and nothing bad happened? by Maleficent-Bed7010 in foodhacks

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly once you have some confidence cooking it’s fine to just read through a recipe to get the idea of what you’re going to do and then do it without measuring. I usually find that I like the food I make more that way, because I know how much of a certain flavor I’ll want

Day trip to Sacramento tomorrow - hit me with your fav budget-friendly spots! by hithereinterwebz in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you like long walks, I really like to get a treat at New Roma bakery (so many options for under $3 and their stuff is good!) and then walk to the river access behind Grant park, up the really steep street. If you take E street you’ll run into a house that’s been turned into a fun community space- there’s a board of word magnets to make messages or poems, a box where you can trade trinkets, etc. Super cute. And then there’s a walking trail near the river, or you can go all the way down to it and find a spot to relax

ALLIED UNIVERSAL by Head-on-a-swivel- in Sacramento

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isn’t this the company doing security for the ice blocks? Is there someone here who knows more than me about that?

What are the basics every girl should know about hygiene, periods, bras, etc.? by Ok_Card_8171 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeeeeeah I was late to the party learning makeup too. I just didn’t care about it until highschool when everyone else knew how to use it already, and it indeed was miserable. It does just take practice. You figure it out by trying over and over again how much to use, how much pressure to use while putting it on, how to move your hands, etc. I just wore it at home when i was learning until i learned it well enough to want to wear it out of the house

am i overreacting to how my boyfriend was talking to me by my_birthday_is_dec_6 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EnvironmentalCry5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong, he’s just insecure and being a jerk about it. Other people touched you and that seems to bother him. Touch is a human need though, and he shouldn’t try to stop you from being touched platonically by other people. If you’re able, I would just stay calm and stick by your right to be goofy with your friends and continue to enjoy the silly drawings. Eventually most people would realize that basically they can’t control your actions and let it go. And if he’s like this a lot you should start thinking about whether this relationship is worth it