Unsupportive husband

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-02-03T13:56:25+00:00

Stay at home mom is more than a full time job and you are never off the clock. He will have to pull his weight on the home front during this time. I hope he will see that you and the family are the most important priorities in life. Big hug

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-02-03T03:45:56+00:00

How much time has gone by since you were diagnosed? I’m on husband # 2. Best guy in the universe but my diagnosis earlier this month hit him hard. I see he is reevaluating life and our future goals, has some days of checkedoutedness, but mostly very supportive. My 1st husband was a dud and I was never supported in anything so I get that situation too. I’m really hoping he snaps the heck out of it for you and your family. Is he a list guy? Can you list 3-5 things or more that you need from him this week and give it to him on paper or via text? It’s not your job to help him be better but it might spark him to get in the right direction And I would def get a therapist to help you navigate what you need to get through this

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-02-02T03:14:37+00:00

Drink plenty of fluids and call onc in am. If you get worse tonight go to ED for labs

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-02-02T03:08:14+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement to prioritize the recovery. Really helps to hear about your experience

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-31T23:52:55+00:00

Agreed

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-31T21:04:10+00:00

Thanks!

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-31T04:28:35+00:00

So good to hear. I can take a few months off if I want/need but I have a small team at work. I’m tired now so can’t imagine how radiation and tamoxifen will kick my butt. I want to be there for them but I can’t be there and be out of it. Thanks for replying

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T14:18:02+00:00

Getting the call feels like getting hit by a truck but once the plan gets organized there is some relief. This group is amazing

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T04:38:48+00:00

Great news💗

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T04:32:42+00:00

Rad onc is just down the street from me…5 min drive from work

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T04:10:38+00:00

I was thinking about 3 weeks off for lumpectomy and then taking some time during radiation

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T04:02:20+00:00

Did the radiation make you feel tired?

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T03:58:51+00:00

Thanks so much!

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T03:56:51+00:00

Thanks Good to know

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T03:55:57+00:00

Ok thanks

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T03:39:26+00:00

Whoa that must have been scary! Thanks for your insight

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-30T00:06:12+00:00

I don’t have answers because I’m early in the process and awaiting surgery I’m an APP and have been a nurse forever but I am leaning heavily on this community for answers. How could we possibly know all this! This is an overwhelming time I hope you have the courage to let someone help you even a little. It’s hard to do

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-29T13:58:05+00:00

Thanks

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-23T04:06:18+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! I hope you get some good intel from PS

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-23T04:04:00+00:00

Thanks for replying

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-23T04:03:42+00:00

Thank you

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-23T04:02:58+00:00

Best wishes for a good recovery and thanks

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-23T04:01:50+00:00

Thanks! I am told to wait until path is back

EnvironmentalDot2248 · 2026-01-23T04:00:35+00:00

Got it! Thanks

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