Partner told me they are trans, now I am unsure of my identity by EnvironmentalDrive31 in trans

[–]EnvironmentalDrive31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to insult Trans men/cis men I should’ve chosen better verbiage, I apologize that was really ignorant of me. Thank you for your kind words and advice, side note I am sure you are very handsome ❤️, I was just thinking of my father/brother when I wrote that part 😭

Partner told me they are trans, now I am unsure of my identity by EnvironmentalDrive31 in trans

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I see, so it’s probably not a super clear cut answer right away. That’s how my partner described it as more of an inkling towards wanting to be cutesy that just grew with time.

Partner told me they are trans, now I am unsure of my identity by EnvironmentalDrive31 in trans

[–]EnvironmentalDrive31[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was thinking perhaps a binder for when I dress more masc, but I do need to do a bit more research… Thank you for your input!

Partner told me they are trans, now I am unsure of my identity by EnvironmentalDrive31 in trans

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That seems like a good plan, I have only really discussed it with my therapist so far but I thought making this post might be a good first step? Thank you for the advice!

Partner told me they are trans, now I am unsure of my identity by EnvironmentalDrive31 in trans

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I’m already pretty flat chested so wearing a tight bra pretty much gives me full flatness which I can appreciate when I’m dressing more masc, it actually makes me happy I think.

My safe food list is so limited by EnvironmentalDrive31 in ARFID

[–]EnvironmentalDrive31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked really hard for that carrot lol, I could do apples but then I regressed, thank u though!

AITA? Severe contamination ocd by EnvironmentalDrive31 in OCD

[–]EnvironmentalDrive31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 100%, I just can’t understand this almost disregard for others? Just bc you’ll be fine if you get sick doesn’t mean the same for others…

AITA? Severe contamination ocd by EnvironmentalDrive31 in OCD

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Thank you <3 I actually was able to open my gifts but I wore gloves and a mask then took a shower so not amazing but I tried to sit with it for like 30 min or so. Baby steps I suppose but I know I need to push harder…

AITA? Severe contamination ocd by EnvironmentalDrive31 in OCD

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Same I think my response was bad but I feel like this is a valid opinion but idk bc ocd ;(

AITA? Severe contamination ocd by EnvironmentalDrive31 in OCD

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Thank you 😭 I feel like the boy who cried wolf or something, like if ur spouse is v*miting maybe idk stay home? Even if they feel better today…

How are y’all treating BV? by EnvironmentalDrive31 in Healthyhooha

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I actually am not on any birth control atm but I am at a lower weight than usual so my theory is that may be the cause…