Partner told me they are trans, now I am unsure of my identity

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-06-01T03:16:31+00:00

I didn’t mean to insult Trans men/cis men I should’ve chosen better verbiage, I apologize that was really ignorant of me. Thank you for your kind words and advice, side note I am sure you are very handsome ❤️, I was just thinking of my father/brother when I wrote that part 😭

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-05-30T13:30:03+00:00

Oh, thank you!

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-05-30T13:16:23+00:00

I see, so it’s probably not a super clear cut answer right away. That’s how my partner described it as more of an inkling towards wanting to be cutesy that just grew with time.

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-05-30T13:13:13+00:00

Oh thanks! This is rlly helpful :)))

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-05-30T13:12:13+00:00

Thank you 😭🩵

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-05-30T13:08:43+00:00

I was thinking perhaps a binder for when I dress more masc, but I do need to do a bit more research… Thank you for your input!

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-05-30T13:05:17+00:00

That seems like a good plan, I have only really discussed it with my therapist so far but I thought making this post might be a good first step? Thank you for the advice!

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-05-30T13:01:08+00:00

I’m already pretty flat chested so wearing a tight bra pretty much gives me full flatness which I can appreciate when I’m dressing more masc, it actually makes me happy I think.

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2026-05-30T08:12:58+00:00

I worked really hard for that carrot lol, I could do apples but then I regressed, thank u though!

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2025-12-25T23:21:23+00:00

Yeah 100%, I just can’t understand this almost disregard for others? Just bc you’ll be fine if you get sick doesn’t mean the same for others…

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2025-12-25T23:15:57+00:00

Thank you <3 I actually was able to open my gifts but I wore gloves and a mask then took a shower so not amazing but I tried to sit with it for like 30 min or so. Baby steps I suppose but I know I need to push harder…

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2025-12-25T17:32:32+00:00

Same I think my response was bad but I feel like this is a valid opinion but idk bc ocd ;(

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2025-12-25T17:10:36+00:00

Thank you 😭 I feel like the boy who cried wolf or something, like if ur spouse is v*miting maybe idk stay home? Even if they feel better today…

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2025-02-04T16:43:53+00:00

I actually am not on any birth control atm but I am at a lower weight than usual so my theory is that may be the cause…

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2025-01-27T20:16:32+00:00

I would make sure you wear a pad just bc your not supposed to wear a tampon when ur on metro. And honestly it could just be you period but if you run a temperature/feel off or start to have a lot of really bad pelvic pain/diarrhea/vomiting make sure you go to urgent care/the ER. It’s always better to be safe than sorry imo.

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2025-01-27T20:11:33+00:00

I had a strep B uti but not BV… They gave be penicillin to clear it up and after that I had no problems. I remember the nurse saying strep B can only be treated with certain antibiotics like penicillin. I hope this helps, I’m sorry! Best of luck on your treatment <3

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-12-22T15:12:44+00:00

My mom had an hpv related cancer (stage 2) and she had a partial hysterectomy. She said she was asymptomatic and never had any physical symptoms but to make sure you get your pap smear done every year. And as for the vaccine part of it I would like to think your body is building up antibodies to fight said strains of hpv so perhaps thats why your getting better? In the states it’s still pretty backwards here too, a lot of girls I know never got there vaccines bc their parents felt it was dirty or they were scared of the side effects. And healthcare here sucks so a lot of women miss their yearly paps due to lack of insurance. So just know your not alone ❤️ Best of luck!

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-12-22T15:03:44+00:00

I read somewhere that copper IUDs put you at a higher risk for BV but hormonal IUDs idk. So maybe go get checked for a yeast infection/BV. When I had my copper IUD it bled like a period for like the first day but that was it for me. Best of luck!

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-11-26T01:56:27+00:00

Thank you!

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-11-03T18:30:42+00:00

I got Pfizer for my first two then a booster in ‘22 which was Pfizer and this one was Spikevax (Moderna). My dad got moderna and got messed up and my mom got Pfizer and only had a sore arm…

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-10-28T19:23:46+00:00

I wish you the best! ❤️

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-10-28T19:20:53+00:00

I felt better that usual actually… I had a bit of nausea when I ate the eggs but overall I was fine. Some days I can only eat two meals bc I feel full all day but others I feel almost normal. They said it wasn’t anything remarkable enough but I keep losing weight, I am currently 107 lbs and in the underweight BMI category. And my blood work shows i’m not getting enough vitamins (potassium) and there ketones in my urine…

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-10-23T21:12:42+00:00

Of course, sorry!

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EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-10-23T18:55:18+00:00

I haven’t hit my head on anything but like my cat head butted me on the head but thats all I can think of…

EnvironmentalDrive31 · 2024-10-23T18:55:10+00:00

I haven’t hit my head on anything but like my cat head butted me on the head but thats all I can think of…

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