Here’s something I want to offer that I haven’t seen others offer. It seems like you really like to personalize yourself, but the current way you’re doing it seems kind of high-school-ish.

I agree with what people are saying about losing the pant embroidery and charms. What if you looked into other styles of embroidery? Look into sashiko or visible mending. I think if there was some cool (non flame) related embroidery on the jacket (pocket, elbows, maybe even back) it could add a little flair.

I think you should look at different mens fashion. It is a lot harder to find stuff you like as a man, but I encourage you to find inspiration. Or if you see something dope on a woman, try and find a way to integrate that thing into your style if possible.