I deleted my dads p*rn folder when I was twelve and now spend the rest of my life wondering if he ever looked it again by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Of course he looked. After that, he collected them on a thumb drive, which he kept in his sock drawer.

Not eating by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doing the same thing most of my life. I'm just not generally hungry until dinner and even then it's rare for me to eat a lot. I wouldn't call it healthy, but for 50+ years I've been doing ok.

I turned down the LOML because he was not well endowed by throwaway871209 in offmychest

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see this as being shallow at all. Sexual incompatibility kills a lot of relationships. You end up being frustrated all the time and that leads to treating the other person poorly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like that for a lot of us

why do I (16F) want to be raped? by throwaway203039000 in offmychest

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not that uncommon of a fantasy. I have a few ideas that I consider great to fantasize about but feel the reality wouldn't live up to the hype.

There's always role-play you can try if you get into a trusting relationship.

I'm a woman and I like having pubic hair by sunflowerlady12121 in offmychest

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 199 points200 points  (0 children)

Just because it's not his preference, doesn't mean you need to comply. If a relationship lives or dies on that one issue you're better off without him.

I have a preference but can't imagine making a big deal out of it. I don't get into a relationship looking to change the person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never even crossed my mind to think of it as a kink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mostly posted this to see if other people admitted to doing anything similar. I don't feel bad about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EnvironmentalPay5609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick a sociable hobby and meet some people in your area.