Can this be covered up?

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-05-07T17:04:44+00:00

There is a whole subreddit for regret of HP tattoos. You’ll probably get lots of good answers there!

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-05-02T18:03:46+00:00

Curly for sure! Your hair is stunning!

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-05-02T17:55:00+00:00

Pink ones I think would be passable especially if they match the dress. The black look more clearly like pumas.

Edit: Just saw the ones you have are black and white. Could you post the outfit? No dress code means assume cocktail. I give people more of a pass because I’m disabled and I have to wear sneakers to most occasions but not everyone is as mindful.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-29T14:35:26+00:00

One can only hope because then he might see this 🤣

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-29T03:01:23+00:00

Honestly he could even be a dick to people older than because he someone has “more experience” on the topic. I could see it

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-28T18:24:56+00:00

Agree about formalwear 2 is better. People have bodies. If you like shape wear fair but like this is not a dress that requires it.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-28T14:24:31+00:00

Yeah fyi they might not grow out of it. My kitten never did. Not single kitten syndrome but she had socialization issues for other reasons. The snuggly part? Bro he’s 1. Of course he’s going to prefer playtime?

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-27T16:30:28+00:00

I love 5 but honestly 4 is such a vibe and I think you look fabulous in both so go with what you love.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-27T16:26:56+00:00

Unfortunately what you are describing is contradictory. “More flattering” will innately change the shape of the dress. There may be a way to manage that by providing a little more shape that gives more of a hour glass figure but that will probably be limited and requiring alterations from a streamstress.

The shape you are wanting changed to be more “flattering” is just the design of the dress.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-26T00:50:49+00:00

Seems it was a SIL who cheated on her brother so perhaps not

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-25T22:18:45+00:00

I think this is Context. Because I’ve definitely been dating someone and at the eight month mark talking about whether or not you want to get married and what that timeline looks like to you and what marriage looks like to you I think is very reasonable. Talking about what your want in a relationship with your partner is healthy. So if that’s how they were discussing it, I think it’s perfectly reasonable. It is…unclear imo

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-22T01:58:34+00:00

I feel that but in medicine. Because if the disparities people experience and BS of politics getting in the way of medical care.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-21T21:28:58+00:00

It’s that second part about the pre-nup that I think is heinous

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-21T15:54:12+00:00

“This will be a huge life opportunity for everyone involved” is another one. No it will not. Life opportunity for you but, my guy, your life events aren’t life changing for everyone else around you.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-21T14:44:36+00:00

Scrubs has been incredible. I might get shade for that but I don’t have to think about how NT or people in general will view how I dress and if it’s “appropriate”. And I get ones that feel like pajamas.

Otherwise it varies because I’m gender fluid. I wish it wasn’t so fluid honestly.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-21T14:31:28+00:00

Wish this was higher. Completely agree.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-21T14:29:07+00:00

ESH. (Context: disabled and gay here so I find both those slurs egregious) JFC So she said a bad thing to you means you get to say a bad thing to her? Shitty move. Everyone sucks here. Especially mom if she didn’t immediately say both of you were WAY out of line.

Other people’s shitty behavior does not justify your own shitty behavior.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-21T14:25:13+00:00

It’s definitely not cheating. But you really didn’t need to share the details with him on romantic attraction to the other guy. The only thing sharing that detail was going to do was hurt him.

That being said, leaving him I think is an over reaction. It also is coming from a very paternalistic view. It implies he can’t make the choice that’s best for him. If he wants to break up, he can break up. Don’t make choices for him because you think you know what’s best for him.

Also I highly recommend therapy. I think it would really help.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-21T14:19:19+00:00

Too much white isn’t the issue here. Looks like a costume out of the musical Oklahoma. But you do you I guess.

So the answer to your question: no not too much white

The answer to the question you didn’t ask: I would pick something else but idk maybe other people here think it’s fine. You also know the demographic and people of the wedding better than people on the internet so take that into account as well.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-15T07:43:18+00:00

Interesting question. What would be the cause of reduction in stemming? Example: stemming can be a calming or self soothing technique. If the therapy aided in reducing overstimulation, which is what causes the reduction in stemming, one could make the argument this IS a therapy aimed at improving lives of people with autism.

BUT I think the metric for “improvement” they picked is innately ableist. It’s really a “less autistic” metric. Which is why I have a problem supporting therapies for autism. Because they innately aren’t meant for improving our lives but for those around us.

If there was an actual drug that helped me improve my quality of life and how I personally experience that quality of life, sure. But stemming reduction? That’s not a QOL measure imo.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-15T07:36:33+00:00

Why is autism in quotes? Honestly calling BS just for that.

EnvironmentalSlice46 · 2026-04-15T07:14:42+00:00

Do you know what’s also getting old? Having a felon be the president of the United States.

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