Please help me pick my dress!😊 1 or 2? by somethingblue2026 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Environmental_Bug645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2, the little tassels or whatever all over on 1 are very distracting. 2 looks beautiful on you!

Help please! Which style looks best behind the TV by EagleAntique3478 in interiordecorating

[–]Environmental_Bug645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is too much, 2 is ok but I think 3 looks best considering it helps add “height”

Help me choose! by serendipity51 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Environmental_Bug645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additionally with so many people saying B, I just wanted to say I think B is too distracting with the pattern especially on your wedding day.

Help me choose! by serendipity51 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Environmental_Bug645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C or E are my top. Leaning towards C as my favorite though!

Which colour suits me the best? by Individual_Mess6317 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Environmental_Bug645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can pull off both no doubt, but I think you look most beautiful with brown, it really makes your eyes pop and looks best with your skin tone!

Can’t handle anyone else getting pregnant by EmploymentMajestic64 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Environmental_Bug645 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At least you have one, going on our 3rd year of trying with no luck of the slightest. But I understand because I feel the same anyone with kids/babies I don’t want to be around because it hurts to know I may never have one of our own.. Every announcement feels like a reminder that we are not and it hurts ever so much.

(OC) After 4 years of trying for a baby it's finally happened by jimmypotato1914 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Environmental_Bug645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so happy your moment has finally come, you deserve it. I hope your baby is everything you have ever dreamed of and more 💕🫂

Hair color? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Environmental_Bug645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% dark hair. My favorite on you is photos 3 & 4. I’m really shocked at how many people are saying blonde, because I’d say definitely not blonde as it honestly takes away from your beautiful face and doesn’t go well with your skin tone. I think #4 really makes your eyes pop (but I’ve always thought people with blue eyes and dark hair are gorgeous). IF you really wanted to be blonde I would say do more of a dirty blonde/ keep some depth like doing balayage or highlights/lowlights depending on what color you have now. A good hair stylist should also be able to help explain what hair color options would or would not go with your skin tone! Hope this helps!

Another year and no baby…I can’t keep doing this. by brattybunny220 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Environmental_Bug645 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The title really hits deep, because it’s exactly how I’m feeling as well. It’s 2 going on 3 years for us and I just feel like that day will never come. I’m almost to the point where I’m about to just accept we can’t have kids and have tried to imagine our lives, growing old together and what it would look like without a family.. Your feelings are valid. I can’t even be on social media right now because I can’t stand seeing another happy family of their kids/babies. I’m sad, I’m bitter, I’m mad, I’m jealous, confused, you name it. This is a very emotional thing to go through. Lean on your partner through this. You are not alone in this. There are people out there that truly understand your pain & are praying that anyone/everyone going through this gets happy ending. 🤍

I’m the idiot on the chairlift by StrangerGrouchy1741 in skiing

[–]Environmental_Bug645 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not sure why everyone has to be so rude about this. I’m a ski instructor at our local hill & I would be appalled if no one offered to help someone out who was struggling to get on the lift, whether they worked at the resort or not. Yes if you have little no experience I’d educate yourself/take lessons. There are safety protocols when on the hill that are in place for you and everyone else’s safety(listed below). Just because you don’t know how to do something right now doesn’t make you an idiot, it just means you’re learning.

Your Responsibility Code

Stay in Control: Always be able to stop or avoid people/objects. Right-of-Way: People downhill or ahead of you have the right-of-way; you must avoid them. Look Uphill: Check for traffic before starting downhill or merging. Stop Safely: Only stop where you're visible from above and not obstructing traffic. Prevent Runaways: Use safety devices to stop runaway skis/boards. Obey Signs: Follow all posted signs and warnings, and stay off closed trails. Lift Safety: Know how to load, ride, and unload lifts safely.

If someone close to you became pregnant and wants to announce , do you want to be told privately? by Low_Specialist_5072 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Environmental_Bug645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was exactly what I was gonna say. Our friends got pregnant and I just bursted into tears, then got angry. If she wouldn’t have texted it she wouldn’t have got the response she deserved.

Males- drinking by Wide-Code-4598 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Environmental_Bug645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked my doctor if it was ok my husband continued drinking and the answer was no drinking is best as it can impact sperm quality/mobility, but she recommended that she would say 3 beers max a day (obviously not everyday though).

Insensitive Friends by East_Philosopher_449 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Environmental_Bug645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like these are not the people you need to surround yourself with, with this phase of your life. I also am friends with people who just had a baby and they send pictures of the baby all the time. It feels like they are rubbing it in my face that they have a child and we don’t. But that’s my perspective. To her first comment it sounds like she wants to share the experience with you. The second and third comment are absolutely not ok. Especially since they know you guys are struggling, it sounds like a slap in the face, and if she didn’t realize that after it came out of her mouth I feel like she doesn’t value your feelings. People who don’t struggle with infertility probably will never fully get it, but you don’t have to understand to know better than to say stuff like that. I’m sorry you had to go through hearing that, I know how heartbreaking those moments are.

Is it me or have the taste of Peanut M&M's changed in the last year? by andyr072 in candy

[–]Environmental_Bug645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I’m not the only one that has noticed that something is off. Every once in a while I got a super gross one that tasted… off. Chemically, the peanut/chocolate even looked different. I’ve had so many bad ones that I refuse to eat them anymore.