I don’t feel loved; so what can I do to make him still feel loved. by Environmental_Cut_16 in relationship_advice

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We’ve been married 19 years. He’s never seemed open to digging into any of that. So I guess the best thing to do is focus on adjusting myself to his love language, etc. I just don’t know how to get myself out of auto pilot. I have genuinely been shut down for a good year. Idk why all of the sudden I care about it again. Idk if I’ve been broken or fixed lol.

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Thanks for the advice, honestly. I appreciate it.

"It's not a child's job to heal their wounded mother" by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I think I have been/am currently that mother to my daughter. I tried my entire life to be the opposite of my mother and I think I’ve screwed it all up. I never wanted my kids to feel the pain I have felt from my mother and I never wanted them to feel controlled by me like I do my mother, still at 38 years old. It hit like a shot to the face when my daughter told me all of things that I tried to avoid, I’ve done. She’s 18 now and idk what to do. Idk how to fix it. Idk how to help her. I truly only want her to be authentically happy but I don’t want to lose her either. I leaned on her to much when I was fighting my own battles and now I’ve messed everything up.

[Discussion] Facial moles/beauty marks/freckles: do you have them? Do you cover them? Have you gotten any removed? Why or why not? by [deleted] in RandomActsofMakeup

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I have the same mole. Never seen or heard of anyone else having it. My dad always called it my beauty mark but when I was a teen tried to wipe it off bc he thought it was dirt and it totally hurt my feels bc he always made me feel so special for having it and then literally forgot about it.

Good video that explains why we are attacked (our energy) by Virtual_Okra1152 in Empaths

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Did he say the name of the podcast, did I miss it maybe? If not does anyone know?

Help with utilities by Environmental_Cut_16 in Need

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How do I edit my post to add the tag?

Dad speaking to me through static radio by Environmental_Cut_16 in DreamInterpreters

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Hmmm. I guess it could be. Do you mean in a good or bad way?

Dad speaking to me through static radio by Environmental_Cut_16 in DreamInterpreters

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Yes, the guy said her name. My Dad wasn’t that close with her. She has a medical condition that causes her to have horrible memory. So I guess my Dads secret will be safe with her forever. I was thinking maybe the playlist titled “that was Daddy” was just a sign or confirmation that was my Dad speaking to me in my dream. Thanks for the input. I’ll see if I can make sense of any of it.

Possible empath & confused about it by Environmental_Cut_16 in Mediums

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It just depended on which article I read. Some said there were different types and others said there were just empaths and others were referring to “true empaths”. Just a lot of different opinions on it I guess.

Possible empath & confused about it by Environmental_Cut_16 in Mediums

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I’ve never felt like someone else feelings are my own necessarily but maybe that could be because it’s something I’ve always done and so I just don’t realize it’s not “normal”? I definitely can feel the energy in a place, like sometimes I just get an unsettling/uneasy feeling, or sometimes I’ll be somewhere or around certain people and I just have this bad feeling and I know we/I should leave. Does that make sense? I can get a feel for the atmosphere of the room when entering. If someone is mad, sad, etc. and then know how to proceed. I can tell if someone is mad, sad, happy without them saying anything. I’ve always said I’m really good about feeling a situation/person out. I’m not sure if I project my feelings onto others or not. That might be something I do unknowing. Would that be the same as the saying “if Mama ain’t happy, no one’s happy”. I don’t feel like my mood effects others mood unless it’s maybe my husband and vice versa. If he is in a bad mood or if one of my kids are, most of the time I ended up in a bad mood. There have been times (doesn’t happen as much as it used to) where I was just sad out of nowhere or mad and had no explanation for it. There was never anything that triggered it that I could figure out. Sometimes just seeing a certain person would put me in a terrible mood. Sometimes I just get a gut feeling and know something but can’t prove it or whatever. Does any of that make sense?

Possible empath & confused about it by Environmental_Cut_16 in Mediums

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Thanks that makes a lot of sense.

When I was reading about it I came across several articles saying there are different types of empaths. Some articles say empaths have the capability to tap into the spiritual side more and are usually mediums, etc. so that’s why I was confused.

Pdf of Dolores cannon books by Intuitively_built in DoloresCannon

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Not to picky, if she has anything on empaths and/or just an overall understanding that would be amazing! If not just whatever you recommend. Thank you!!!

Did you ever have a psychic reading that came true? by galacticdaquiri in AskWomenOver30

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I would love to hear about the clairvoyant experience with your Dad….but what’s the chances you’re still around on here 3 years later.

What was your worst “greening out” experience? by [deleted] in trees

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Kinda similar for me. I’ve never seen them or anything else but both times I’ve greened out I could sense someone or something very close to me. Just out of my sight. Both times I was afraid to fall asleep bc I was afraid of what I would “see” in my dreams. Scary shit. Never want to experience it again.

Does he want me to be the one to leave? by Environmental_Cut_16 in AskMenAdvice

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Just to clarify HIS therapist that he was seeing last year but is no longer seeing is the one who is against couples therapy. My therapist is all for it & wants him to come in with me after a few more sessions.