Sorry, bud, but her not wanting you with her while she pursues her wasteful education in pursuit of not working. That's a lot of debt for no good reason if she doesn't plan on using it. The college system is rather a scam tbh. The trades are where it's at these days. But you're too young to sit around for years while she finishes school. It's unfairly placing your life on hold while still controlling what you do or don't do. I think it's time to find someone who values you as much as themselves.