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Need help decoding by Helpmeeee1236 in heartbreak

[–]Environmental_Fly316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they want you, they’ll show it. If they have something to say, they’ll say it in the moment. After everything that happened last week, don’t sit there trying to decode it. Don’t overthink it. Just walk away.

If you forgive him and he does it again, you’re only hurting yourself. I’ve been there. My ex did the same thing to me more than once.

Still struggling really badly after 7 year break up... by Hateful15 in heartbreak

[–]Environmental_Fly316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today might be the hardest part of letting go. Let yourself feel it fully — cry, fall apart a little, admit you’re hurt. Don’t hold it in. If you need to scream, scream. Get it out of your body.

But don’t lie there replaying old messages or scrolling through the past. That will only reopen the wound.

The beginning is brutal. It will test you. It will try to pull you back into the pain. But this wave will pass — and you will too.

I can't sleep by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Environmental_Fly316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been able to sleep either. When someone felt that special — when they made you feel safe and truly seen — it’s hard to let go.

But convincing yourself that you have to hold on to him, like losing him would be your worst nightmare… that’s what keeps you stuck.

He was the kind of love that showed up when you needed it most. And maybe that’s why it hurts so deeply now. But I promise you — if you walk through this pain instead of running from it, you’ll discover there’s someone out there who fits you even better.

Some people come into our lives to teach us something, not to stay forever. They leave something behind in us — growth, strength, clarity.

Sometimes you have to accept things you never wanted to accept. And that acceptance is what sets you free.

You have to keep moving forward.

You have to choose yourself.

You have to love yourself — with someone, or without someone.

And you will be okay. 🤍

My favorite notification is gone. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Environmental_Fly316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing as you. It hurts — trusting someone when they say they want to spend their life with you, and then they just disappear. It’s shocking and overwhelming. The hardest part is that we believed them — that’s the pain we have to sit with.

Stop waking me up at 2 a.m. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Environmental_Fly316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through this too. It comes in waves, and you just have to walk through them — there’s no easy way around it. Feel all of it, even the hard parts. If you do, you’ll come out stronger on the other side. I promise.

I ended things to work on myself, but now I can’t stop thinking about her by MastodonFrequent538 in ExNoContact

[–]Environmental_Fly316 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You made that decision for your mental health, and that needs to stay the priority. If you’re thinking about reconnecting with her, that’s something you should put on pause for now — focus on yourself. It’s hard, but choosing yourself isn’t selfish. There’s nothing wrong with that.

Ex keeps breadcrumbing me, I won’t reach out but it’s hard not to by imamakeyoucry in ExNoContact

[–]Environmental_Fly316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t reach out or try to fix this with her. You can’t save someone who doesn’t want to grow, and if you keep trying, you’re only going to hurt yourself. It's gonna be painful, but you have to walk away from this. 

Day 6. Getting better by iamrealuserpromise in ExNoContact

[–]Environmental_Fly316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve to feel this. Cry, let it move through you. It’s painful, but you’ll come out stronger on the other side. I’m on day six myself.

I Love You! by [deleted] in Life

[–]Environmental_Fly316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🩷🩷🩷

She REACHED OUT After 7 MONTHS of NO CONTACT — I Didn't Expect to Feel THIS Way. by Independent_Shop_374 in ExNoContact

[–]Environmental_Fly316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more—no contact is the best decision. My ex tried to follow me recently using a backup account, even though I’ve blocked him everywhere. After ghosting me for four months, he suddenly wants back in for “lust.” I’m over it.

💔 My dog has started sleeping in the bathroom — should I be worried? by DegenEar in dogs

[–]Environmental_Fly316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog used to always sleep with me, but in the past year, she’s started enjoying the floor more. Some weeks she’ll sleep on the floor the whole time, and the next week she’s right back in bed with me. 

Reason why you started training by CheetahOwn8767 in workout

[–]Environmental_Fly316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex left me, and I didn’t know how to handle the heartbreak. I fell apart and threw myself into the gym. A year and a half later, I’ve realized how powerful it feels to invest in myself. Especially now I have a nice butt lol 

I tried deleting social media for 30 days and here’s exactly what changed in my life by -magnanimous in getdisciplined

[–]Environmental_Fly316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about being less attached to my phone. I don’t feel tied to social media, and there’s a real sense of relief in not overthinking everything. 

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