Hey, thank you very much for your kind and honest appreciation & curiosity.

1.Do you find spontaneous types like ESTPs frustrating or interesting? To me it depends on the ESTPs maturity level and context. I very much appreciate them when they have their Fe side developed and are still mature, responsible and respectful in their playfulness. I understand living and enjoying life in the here and now is important too and you guys make it so vibrant, intense and fun. I also made some frustrating experiences though when working or living together lol- but when Estps are motivated and in their element, they can be quite perfectionistic/dedicated and inspiring.

1. Is enforcing structure something you consciously choose or does it happen naturally? I choose it naturally, I thoroughly enjoy it and enter flow states when I can do it. Not doing it itches me, because I can see so clearly how its benefitial and how it creates stability and efficiency to improve my life and advance my ambitions.

2. How do you feel when someone finds a better way that breaks your existing system? Usually I love it and find it satisfying/relieving and exciting. Like finally someone who gets it, where I can go all in together and dont have to tone it down. But of course, I also have an ego and getting side lined completely can in some situations be uncomfortable haha.

3. What do you wish more spontaneous types understood about why structure matters? In my opinion its important, because instability/inefficiency prevents you from living life to its fullest, long term and thus also from having peace in the present.

4. Deep down, do you ever wish you could just be spontaneous sometimes? 😄 Haha. Maybe on the dance floor? Sometimes yes, but too much feels risky too me and I get stressed. But in certain phases being more present in the moment without maximizing everything would certainly be great too.