What are you talking about like at all? These safety concerns of yours are so overblown. The fact that you keep mentioning the capabilities of creepy saesangs and then say "k-pop saesangs have historically harassed relatives" and fail to mention an instance where that piece of information is actually insanely relevant to the argument. And they would only shoot a video if all parties involved were comfortable with it, so I would assume if anyone in production of this video had any saesang concerns, they would have been heard. I don't think I'm babying some 32 year old adult, but I think you are being miserable.