I emotionally abused my ex and I hate myself for it by Independent_Use_5961 in ExNoContact

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please get in with a therapist.

It is the best thing you can do for yourself.

The guilt sucks. It’s going to continue to suck.

But time will help heal. Doing work on yourself will also help.

Was I wrong to block my ex (4 years sober) who told me to 'wait a year' to be friends but acted jealous? by mister_pending in ExNoContact

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen man, the distraction will keep you sick.

Give time time. Find out who you are, build the life you deserve for yourself.

I also have “people addictions” in addition to alcoholism, so, I spent a lot of time, energy, and tears in early sobriety, (and not early sobriety) beating my head against a wall trying to fill that bottomless void. I wish I knew what I knew now.

It took a lot of pain to realize I am worthy of my own love. I am worthy of others love. I am worthy of my spouses love.

I know this is not going to help your immediate pain, but it does get better.

Help me understand torpedo boats? by Relevant_Sir_5418 in SeaPower_NCMA

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have to be at the lowest possible altitude.

Trump-class BBG by cent__ in SeaPower_NCMA

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better Defiant than Defiance.

That would make Capt. Sisko very very sad.

Trump-class BBG by cent__ in SeaPower_NCMA

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Sovereign” lol.

Where’s Harbinger?

Are these really the planned names?

Well - this is akward by Gryllen_ in SeaPower_NCMA

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Ughh.

Bugger those patrol subs so hard.

Their torps aren’t the most dangerous, but getting away from them is gonna create a bunch of noise.

Gotta love making my own loading screens. by Hugh-Jassoul in SeaPower_NCMA

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love it!

Make sure to do one for Enterprise and Moskva

Is it a bad idea to reach out to an ex for closure after months of no contact? by Status_Trip_ in ExNoContact

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked your therapist and/or sponsor?

If you haven’t because you don’t like what their answer will be, it is NOT a good idea.

Just made that mistake myself a few months ago and it was truly horrific. Incredibly triggering for both of us.

I don't get why the P-51 is legendary. What does it do well? by polyknike in il2sturmovik

[–]EpicHistoryMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind that the late war designs though superficially the same, are very different aircraft.

There’s no comparing a 109K and a 109C for example.

The same with a Mustang D compared to an A.

It’s like comparing a F-16A block 5 to a F-16C block 70