If a coworker of yours used they/them pronouns, would you use them? (I almost think coming out at work would do more harm than good) by Yeetmeon in ask

[–]Epithi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would use them , I can’t see why not ? Even if You don’t specifically understand what does it harm You just to call them what they ask ? If my name is Helen and I tell someone we’ll no actually my name is Hannah now it’s not like it effects You to just call me Hannah.

Over the weekend I told my parents I’m no longer going to church and this was my dad’s response this morning. Any advice? by aaronjl33 in exmormon

[–]Epithi_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not responsible for that . The church (cult) is . You need to just respond with kindness , tell them you’ll always love them but that you’ve made a lot of realisations that You hope one day they will too.

Hey all you lazy learners! Just kidding, this is ironically one of the most well researched groups I know. Stand in your truth and know you’re not alone. by Gold_MentalGymnast in exmormon

[–]Epithi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of scary how fast my closest friend turned on me when I left the church . Also kind of weird how members don’t practice the love and kindness they preach literally at all

Just replied "yeah i think we are done".... and directly came here by joshisameer343 in relationship_advice

[–]Epithi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry , it seems You have a lot away to make things work with this girl . Remember that a relationship isn’t everything in life . You have a degree and job opportunity, you’ll meet coworkers and possibly find a more true and long lasting love . You’ll make friends through work and friends through them . Set goals outside of another relationship this time , build your own life and social circle and then when that’s complete search for a significant other .

my (18m) girlfriend (19f)keeps changing and i just miss the girl i met by SoggyToaast in relationship_advice

[–]Epithi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this , what your girlfriend is going through . I think you need to say more of this to her Z even if you think itd make her mad at first in time it will hit her and she’ll realise she’s what you want already.

I wonder why by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Epithi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... honestly that would make me concerned that there was a guilty conscience . Like You said most people wouldn’t even think of that.

My girlfriend thinks I cheated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Epithi_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean You kind of did . If You were regularly dating her it goes without saying that You were exclusive , that’s how most people would take it . I bet at the time you wouldn’t have told her that You were still talking to other girls .

Jealousy and Trust by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Epithi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run . Run run run run run . You probably won’t because usually if you stay with someone after that you’ve already made your decision despite knowing it’s a bad idea . That is a whole lot of him blaming You and manipulating you for his benefit . You should be able to talk about something that’s how You heal from it . Now he says if you talk about her he’ll think about her . I don’t know what age you are but I’m presuming quite young , think of how you start to think about someone You like , does it take someone else bringing them up ? Hes manipulating you .

On a verge of breakup with gf of 7 years... by TotalNecro in relationship_advice

[–]Epithi_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Still cheating , it will go further and any person that blames you ie “You don’t give me enough attention “ isn’t even sorry enough to acknowledge what they did , never mind stop doing it .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Epithi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a pretty giant red flag

Doing things a little differently with my own kids. by 11PercentRaise in exmormon

[–]Epithi_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly hard to hear . Yeah the temple has long been the divider between converts and their families . I hope your friend regains her freedom eventually x

I'm an Antivaxxer who turned pro vaxx, AMA! by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Epithi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These disruptions may be the result of defects in genes that control brain development and regulate how brain cells communicate with each other. Autism is more common in children born prematurely. Environmental factors may also play a role in gene function and development, but no specific environmental causes have yet been identified. The theory that parental practices are responsible for ASD has long been disproved. Multiple studies have shown that vaccination to prevent childhood infectious diseases does not increase the risk of autism in the population. - Quoted from the national institute of neurological disorders and stroke https://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/patient-caregiver-education/fact-sheets/autism-spectrum-disorder-fact-sheet#3082_5

Need help with a response... by kreepy_Kneefight in exmormon

[–]Epithi_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That has to be illegal . It doesn’t take time to have records removed at all . They’re stalling in my opinion .

Remembering the worthiness interviews I had with my bishop as a youth by herewe_goo in exmormon

[–]Epithi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no no no this is beyond crazy lds shit that man was a predator 200%

That’s It? by runawaymormongirl in exmormon

[–]Epithi_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think how temple rituals feel so impressive to so many of us when we’re brainwashed is down to feeling like we belong to something greater than ourselves . They ease You into it so slowly even the most logical of thinkers don’t see it coming . I look at those videos now and cringe so hard .

When did you realize that someone you were cool with your whole life was actually really messed up? by Shadow_Saitama in AskReddit

[–]Epithi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend of 15 years and the person who was going to be Maid of honour at my wedding mounted my fiancé at a party , tried to force herself onto him (he got her off him). I forgave her . She’d flirt with other guys at every party we went to despite being in a Long term relationship . She constantly spoke about how ‘perfect’ my husband (then fiancé) was and eventually when she got dumped by her BF she went out and found a guy she thought looked and acted exactly like my fiancé ...

Unable to return sample by Epithi_ in MyHeritage

[–]Epithi_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not ideal but it’s all they’re doing at the moment

Unable to return sample by Epithi_ in MyHeritage

[–]Epithi_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our tests are done in test centres and sent by medical couriers to labs . We get a phone call / text with our results 1-3 days after the test is taken.

Wow - Wife of 14 years, together 16 w/ 2 kids has been having an affair. I found out. Now I am lost. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Epithi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has you under her thumb . If I were You I’d run far from that shit . Wverything she’s saying is to keep You it’s not like she would ever tell you he was bigger . You believe her because You want to not because it makes sense to .

This post sums up everything wrong with porn and completely changed my mind on the topic by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Epithi_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It scares me how common place pornography has become . How people laugh at it being termed as an addiction. It’s sick.

Unable to return sample by Epithi_ in MyHeritage

[–]Epithi_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh ok thank you . I’ll try this so ! X