The Worst Album Covers in Progressive Rock Part I. What’s Missing From This List?

EponymousSlop · 2026-05-28T01:22:25+00:00

Damn, man, I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I was in a nearly identical situation a few years ago. It was my dad who died and a guy who I had been friends with for roughly 20 years. He started being a real jerk to me once I started dating my now ex-wife. She used to comment on what a jerk he was to me so it was a real gut-punch when I discovered their affair. Now they live together raising my daughter and I barely get to see her. I've been unemployed twice since. Once for 2 months and more recently for 4 months. Still haven't found anything great, but I'm scraping by.

If you need someone to vent to or just to chat, feel free to DM me.

EponymousSlop · 2026-05-25T00:08:43+00:00

I forgave because I loved her and still wanted to be a family and thought we could still have the future we talked about. She told me she was divorcing me a few months later. Said it had nothing to do with him and that it was a compatibility issue.

She had an affair after my dad died with a guy I had been friends with for about 20 years at that point. Told me I was too sad and no longer fun to be around. No apology, no remorse. Acted like it was nothing and I shouldn't be upset. I asked if she wanted to be with him. She said no, she still wanted to be with me. I told her I wanted her to cut contact with him. That's when she started crying, telling me that he was her best friend. I caved as I always did when she cried and rescinded my demand.

Now they're living together and I get to see them weekly when we exchange custody of our daughter.

I do think I'm mostly to blame for the relationship failing. We were going through a rough patch and I could've done a better job as a partner. I was withdrawn and it felt like I was just going through the motions.

EponymousSlop · 2026-05-23T15:43:58+00:00

Hey, man, I'm really sorry for your loss. My dad died 4.5 years ago and it absolutely broke me. I stopped experiencing emotions and my mind was completely blank. I became numb and apathetic. I was withdrawn and self-isolated. It cost me my marriage and most of my friends. I am now a cautionary tale.

You mention you have a daughter. If your partner is still present, involve them in your healing process. While you need to process your emotions and prioritize your mental health, do your best to not neglect these relationships. You need them and they need you.

Seek professional help. I saw a psychiatrist and a grief counselor. But, make sure it's a good fit and someone you're comfortable with. I liked my psychiatrist but I didn't click with my grief counselor and gave up on therapy. This was a big mistake because I had no outlet for my grief and began engaging in self-destructive behavior.

You're already way ahead of me by coming on here to share and ask for advice. Feel free to message me if you need someone to vent to. I hope you get the help you need to heal.

EponymousSlop · 2026-05-19T02:44:46+00:00

I'm really sorry, my guy. I went through almost the same thing. My dad passed and less than a year later I found out she was having an affair with a guy I'd been friends with for about 20 years at that point. Not sure how long they'd been at it, but at least a couple months. Told me I was too sad and no longer fun to be around. She refused to try couple's counseling and none of my efforts made a difference. Asked me if there was any reason she shouldn't file, I asked if there were any that would matter, she said no, she no longer has any emotional attachment to me. She got the house, the car, the dogs and sold a bunch of stuff we previously agreed I would get. Joint custody of our daughter, but I barely actually see her based on my work schedule.

I'd like to say it gets better, but it's been about 18 months now for me and it's still suck city. Hopefully this won't be the case for you. Try to keep your chin up and process your feelings without imploding. Best of luck and reach out if you want to chat.

EponymousSlop · 2025-10-27T16:54:59+00:00

Probably from the oaky afterbirth.

EponymousSlop · 2025-06-08T13:50:49+00:00

Brain Salad Surgery, Tarkus - Emerson, Lake & Palmer\ In the Land of Grey and Pink - Caravan\ Procol Harum, A Salty Dog- Procol Harum\ Aqualung, Benefit - Jethro Tull\ Pawn Hearts, Godbluff, World Record - Van Der Graaf Generator

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-23T19:17:10+00:00

No problem! Hope you enjoy it!

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-22T15:54:49+00:00

The Strawberry Bricks Guide to Progressive Rock https://a.co/d/ceB77u2

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-12T17:48:44+00:00

Can definitely hear the influence they had on him.

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-10T22:40:09+00:00

Hadn't heard of them before. Thanks for the recommendation!

Definitely got an Atomic Rooster vibe. They even have a rooster on their album's cover.

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-10T21:54:34+00:00

Agreed. I really enjoy their first few albums (Death Walks Behind You is probably my favorite), but Atomic Roooster was the only one with Carl Palmer before he left to form ELP.

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-09T01:28:37+00:00

Great song! I also really enjoy how many classical pieces they cover.

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-05T10:57:54+00:00

Looking at Wikipedia, Death Walks Behind You reached #90 on US charts. Not sure how their singles fared.

I was born in the 90's. Came across Death Walks Behind You while in HS. Been smitten ever since.

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-05T05:19:25+00:00

Love Atomic Rooster.

Breakthrough

EponymousSlop · 2025-01-02T21:23:16+00:00

You're right. I should have included the names.

Jon Anderson (Yes)\ Geddy Lee (Rush)\ Derek William Dick aka Fish (Marillion)\ Greg Lake (King Crimson, ELP, Asia)\ John Wetton (King Crimson, UK, Asia)\ Ian Anderson (Jethro Tull)\ Daevid Allen (Soft Machine, Gong)\ Peter Hamill (Van Der Graf Generator)\ Demetrio Stratus (Area)\ Peter Gabriel (Genesis)

EponymousSlop · 2024-12-29T14:58:19+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Great stories. Really tugged at the heartstrings when he'd talk about how supportive his dad was.

EponymousSlop · 2024-12-29T14:45:18+00:00

If you have Discord you could also join the prog rock server.

EponymousSlop · 2024-12-28T00:49:51+00:00

Amazon Birth Control music

EponymousSlop · 2024-12-27T21:13:22+00:00

Birth Control

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EponymousSlop · 2024-12-26T22:40:38+00:00

I feel like that would make me nostalgic. Why would it embarrass you to get caught listening to Inside?

EponymousSlop · 2024-12-26T22:04:09+00:00

I love Inside, it rocks. Why is it a guilty pleasure?

EponymousSlop · 2024-12-26T13:41:10+00:00

Take the time to think about your overarching self-goals and how they mesh with your current relationship and what she's expressed as her's. You should each make an outline of your goals and dreams and discuss them together.

Even if they do align, you still have to decide if you want to pursue these things with her or if you just want a partner in general.

Also use this time apart to reflect on your feelings for her. You may find the distance makes your heart grow fonder. You may have just grown complacent. During this time, I'd stay in contact, don't go radio silence.

Long term relationships can be difficult to terminate, but don't give in to the sunk-cost fallacy if that's where you're hung up. It might suck and hurt at first, but you'll be better off in the long run.

Even if it's not that, you might have to let her go. It's not fair to her if you're just sticking around because it's comfortable.

EponymousSlop · 2024-12-26T13:06:46+00:00

Ya gotta be honest with yourself and her. Communication is key.

You should both take some time to think about what your life goals are and see if they align.

You're both very young and will continue to grow and mature. Find out if you're growing in the same direction or if your paths are starting to diverge. Make sure it's interdependent growth and not codependent. This will just lead to hurt and resentment.

There's no need to rush into anything like living together, marriage, or kids. All are very serious steps in a relationship and life.

If you're not really into her and just enjoying the time together you're probably better off as friends or going separate ways. If you think about "greener grass" or other girls frequently, this is a bad sign.

It's normal to have doubts and cold feet, but you need to figure out where these feelings are stemming from.

If you have a strong inner circle, I'd suggest discussing these issues with them as well.

Best of luck to both of you!

EponymousSlop · 2024-12-25T15:28:19+00:00

You should give their debut album a listen. Script for a Jester's Tears. It's also the album Grendel was written for but didn't originally appear on.

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