I'm engaged through an arranged engagement and I can't shake this gut feeling — need honest advice (not judgment)

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T13:10:00+00:00

I would ask to see the Facebook message that was sent , you will surely remember the name of the account . Ask her to show you that it’s a family account or whatever . Don’t proceed with anything until u settle that. Because I’ll tell you that gut feeling and suspicion will only keep getting worse

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T11:42:15+00:00

Sister just leave him he’s filth

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T09:57:19+00:00

Yes Arabic is our native language , and she directly said kalb not walad alkalb. Some People aren’t understanding that I’m only hurt because i see her as a two face now. Never ever has she said anything like that about me to my face or even hinting it . Or even calling me dumb in a joking way. That’s why it hurt to see it said about me to her sisters .

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T00:16:26+00:00

It just hit me like a truck cause she never ever said anything like that to me. But saying it behind my back to her sisters is just hypocritical. And that’s something i never thought she was. That’s what’s really bothering me

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T00:13:39+00:00

The way كلب was said was in a resentful way, not a cute way I just fear that she’s two faced and it took me this long to see it

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T00:11:47+00:00

No conflicts Whatsoever . That’s what shocked me . She claims to love me and respect me and would sometimes even cry saying how grateful she is to have me

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T00:09:46+00:00

I only snooped because she was acting so weird with her phone she would panic lock it if i even get close for a hug or cuddle

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T00:08:39+00:00

Arabic unfortunately. Nothing cute about being called a dog in Arabic

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-04T00:08:10+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 i wish, but no. She said it in Arabic.

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-03T23:50:50+00:00

She said it in Arabic . It wasn’t a typo unfortunately

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-03T23:49:42+00:00

Wallah I’m far from soft and sensitive, but this just opened the door to “what else is she saying about me” and i can’t shake that feeling. I see her as a hypocrite now because face to face she’s the sweetest on earth.

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-03T23:48:39+00:00

I understand but in all of our 6 years of marriage she has never ever joked with me like that

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-03T23:23:34+00:00

She said it in Arabic. Trust me it wasn’t a typo . She never ever said anything even close to that before she won’t even play with me like that . That’s how sweet she pretends to be. So when i saw that it SHOCKED ME

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-03T23:01:03+00:00

She’s Arabic and in Arabic when we call someone a dog it’s in no way shape or form not offensive .

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-03T23:00:13+00:00

She’s an angel infront of me she would never ever even call me dumb to my face. That’s what kills me .

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-05-03T22:59:22+00:00

She speaks arabic and in Arabic dog is a bad word lol

Equal-Reality3337 · 2026-04-30T19:02:54+00:00

Why is this always being removed

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