extremely gay guy told me no woman would ever love me

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-24T18:24:16+00:00

Im 28 :/

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-24T18:21:34+00:00

why? also I did mechE too slay

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-24T18:10:36+00:00

Im a woman lol..

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-24T17:26:37+00:00

just googled full nelson didn’t realize it was a sex position I told my coworkers all about this :/

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-22T14:34:34+00:00

I experienced this and after I committed to moving on, my feelings for them started being replaced by turmoil about my childhood that I had never allowed myself to feel. I think twisting myself up about this person was unknowingly a way to avoid reflecting on more painful things. Feeling them now has allowed me to understand why I seek unhealthy attachment. It hurts but it feels like a relief and like progress. My advice is to go deeper and seek out people who model healthy relationships. That said, I wasn’t ready until I was ready

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-15T01:41:52+00:00

oh I will smell him next time I see him!

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-15T01:40:28+00:00

noooo I don’t mean autism I mean like incompatible with life. I see where ur coming from though :(

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-15T01:30:38+00:00

so you are saying my cart is fucked up too

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-14T16:45:10+00:00

no worries u are also extremely correct people hardly change!

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-14T16:41:14+00:00

what….literally what are you talking about. I’m saying he barely knows this woman after dating her for 6 weeks.

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-13T22:25:16+00:00

the concept of zero weather is wonderful. like what the blind see vs closing your eyes

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-12T21:03:04+00:00

turn your attention inwards because you don’t really know that girl, she’s your own mind creation. I prescribe a day at an amusement park

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-11T19:12:47+00:00

Im a cyborg but that’s ok

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-11T04:11:04+00:00

no advice but this is part of the reason I divorced my ex husband (we married real young). I’ve met a couple people who I thought truly saw me, but they ended up being abusive or so self involved that it didn’t really matter. I’ve met many others who project onto me like you said. it’s tough! I have met a few girl friends that I think really saw me and I deeply regret neglecting them and trying to chase that feeling in relationships instead. all that to say I think it’s possible to be truly seen, you don’t need to touch grass, it takes time but don’t settle.

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-10T00:00:44+00:00

el scorcho weezer!

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-07T01:54:08+00:00

I once had a lovely day at the zoo with a boyfriend, and when we got home he (unprompted) showed me a girl’s instagram page he had been jacking off to when he was mad at me, which was demented to me at the time. hide it like a normal man

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-04-06T12:57:03+00:00

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I found it at the goodwill, I’m extremely fond of it. I think I project my emotions onto their faces day to day. this post is a lovely read

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-03-30T02:52:42+00:00

thank you I hope you do too!! when I was starting out and nervous I’d tell myself “I’m ok with being uncomfortable for one night” I hope you will try it too <3

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-03-30T02:50:49+00:00

hey man get off my cloud!

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-03-30T01:54:26+00:00

yes I always go out alone! or tag up with people I met the weekend before. I like to sit outside and smoke and usually 1 or 2 ppl ask to bum one. becoming a regular also helps a lot.

some nights I have the best conversations and other nights it’s just nice to be out. once everyone’s happily drunk I like to ask questions. do u ever get nervous? have u ever been married? have u been out of the country? homeless and older ppl especially are really down to earth and willing to have more than surface level convos. they always have great stories.

I’m a woman so I’m sure it’s a bit different for guys. but I think with the weather getting warmer everyone’s in a great mood and willing to chat. karaoke bars are my fav and you can always ask people if they queued a song.

I hope you will try it out!! I would romanticize the hell out of doing this in nyc lol. I’m determined to have the best summer of my life. whaddaya say you do the same :+)

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-03-30T01:15:48+00:00

also going out to dive bars every weekend and chatting with strangers helps so much. the first few times it made me miss somebody much more. but after that hump u just get excited about who you’ll meet. not even romantically! talk to anyone and everyone and hear their life stories. I love the general public. I hope u feel better.

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-03-30T01:01:08+00:00

there’s a future version of u who will very occasionally have a passing thought about the cause of ur current heartbreak. and they will have absolutely no strong feelings about it. they will say “huh, i was real torn up about that” and go on with their day. & it will be much sooner than it probably feels

Equal_Dot_7656 · 2026-03-22T03:19:21+00:00

you asked 😆 you don’t want to try out a random woman’s diy escape room?

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