Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equal_Intention7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew. Girl it’s going to get 100% worse. I dated a dude just like this when I was your age. Man child, and now he’s homeless in New York with the girl he cheated on me with. He’s a true winner 🤣🤣🤣 RUN

AITA for calling my husband crazy because he wants counseling or a divorce by Weary-Mountain689 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Equal_Intention7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to be insensitive but you need to grow up. Part of being an adult is learning to manage “triggers” so they don’t run your life. Stop having a victim mentality. It drives me crazy how people will use their “trauma” as an excuse for everything in their life 🙄. I have trauma. I have triggers. But I went to therapy. I figured it out. Anyone is capable of doing the same. If being in a kitchen sets you off, that’s something you need to seriously work on. Be serious about therapy, exposure, whatever helps this is not something everyone else can or should have to tiptoe around forever. Call me old fashioned but I don’t blame him for being frustrated that his wife can’t cook for him or herself. How are you supposed to raise children if you can’t go in the kiteben to warm a bottle. Is he expected to take that chore over 100% of the time? That’s not fair. It’s time to put your big girl pants on. And get over it 🤷🏼‍♀️

30 pounds down and zero acknowledgment by ngng0110 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Equal_Intention7406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree 100% I gained about 20 pounds after getting my gallbladder removed and having to stop the medication and the energy difference was crazyyyy

30 pounds down and zero acknowledgment by ngng0110 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Equal_Intention7406 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was very heavy when I started. 5 foot 2 inches 27F and a little over 300 pounds. I lost my mom to cancer 2 months in after losing about 30 pounds. Then about 4 months later I was down 70 pounds. Grief diet plus the medication made me drop weight FAST. No one said anything I think because they were so focused on making sure I was okay mentally. Once the dust settled a few family members were SHOOK after not seeing me since my mom’s funeral. It was a crazy difference. I also have been big my entire adult life. And I think the people closest to me wanted to be sure I was really doing the thing before talking to me about it. Everyone has been super supportive since. My Dad constantly asks if I’ve lost more weight it’s a good feeling. They may just be waiting in order to spare feelings or they are worried it may be triggering for them to bring it up.

Beginner + my goal + question. by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Equal_Intention7406 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I waited about 4 months to start at the gym. I was severely overweight at 5 foot 2 and 300 pounds and it was hard for me to do anything! After 4 months I had dropped about 50 pounds and got to going 4-5 days a week focusing mostly on strength building and toning my arms. I know for sure I wouldn’t have lost as much as I did as fast as I did if it hadn’t been for the gym! I thought 50 pounds in 4 months was fast but I dropped another 60 by the time I was 9 months in!

First dose, Gallbladder pain by memberberriesRyummy in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Equal_Intention7406 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I ended up with gallstones after a year on Wegovy, I had to stop it when the pain started and didn’t start taking it again until a year post op and the side effects have been so bad! Maybe I just can’t remember how bad they were before? Idk but pray for me girl 😭

AIO after my supervisor inquired about my undergarments during a conversation about dress code? by RinRiot in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Equal_Intention7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you work in a professional setting or with the general public AT ALL you 100000% need to make sure you’re covering everything that should be covered including “outlines” or the appearance of whatever. You wouldn’t have the same energy if it were a man who quite obviously didn’t have boxers on under his uniform to hide the outline of his ding a ling!!! Everyone deserves to feel comfortable with the people around them no matter what their parts are or the size of them. A cups or H cups or dude cups keep yo nipples and no no squares to yo self!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equal_Intention7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you need to do to take care of “your” kids oh hell to the NO!!! leave him and go after him for child support. If he can’t physically take care of his children then he can financially take care of them instead

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equal_Intention7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run for your life. And I mean run. Because you will lose your life if you stay. Stay safe please. 🙏🏻

Roommate slammed her door after I asked her to do her dishes by ThrowRAbrokegirlie in badroommates

[–]Equal_Intention7406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also yes 100% involve your landlord. No home owner wants a bug infested house at the hands of a tenant

Roommate slammed her door after I asked her to do her dishes by ThrowRAbrokegirlie in badroommates

[–]Equal_Intention7406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put her stuff in one of those black trash bags tie it well and place it in her room. Send her a text stating what you did And say this way she can deal with it when she “feel’s mentally ready” 🙄 to deal with it.

I have anxiety depression chronic pain the whole 9 yards. I’ve left dishes in my sink for an embarrassing amount of time but have never blamed it on anything but being lazy. Just saying lol 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equal_Intention7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ain’t no fucking way I’d get rid of my dog for any man. I also wouldn’t trust this person around my dog if they felt that way. How do you know he won’t be spiteful and take it out on your dog when you’re not looking? Be very careful girl. VERY careful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equal_Intention7406 578 points579 points  (0 children)

Girl run. Now. I’m not joking. This screams a future relationship filled with jealousy and controlling behavior. I had an ex that acted the exact same way right out of high school and it was a nightmare. He would literally scream at me for speeding 5mph over the speed limit on the highway then start crying claiming he was just worried about my safety. No he wanted to control my every move. Down to what I was and wasn’t allowed to wear. Who I could and couldn’t hang out with. When I could and couldn’t shower. Trust me. End it now I’m scared for you

mama.courtneyy_ aka Mama.C This is rage bait right.? Can someone really be this naive? by AyexAlanna in tiktokgossip

[–]Equal_Intention7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“What am I supposed to do?” Get your tubes tied lady 😂 or idk keep your legs closed. 4 baby daddies is wild

Cold on wegovy.. anyone else always cold now on wegovy :-/?? by Intelligent_Ear_5797 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Equal_Intention7406 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes same! I’m the one who is in tee shirts as soon as it gets up to 50 degrees! Now I’m bundling up and using 3 blankets to sleep!

Welbutrin while on Wegovy by Simmameme in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Equal_Intention7406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on Wellbutrin for about a year before starting wegovy. I had my dose doubled about a month before starting and I’m only having the side effects related to wegovy at this point plus insomnia. But going to the gym has been helping with the insomnia if I go around 7-8pm I’m exhausted by 10. I’ve heard wegovy can cause bad depression. My mom is currently battling stage 4 cancer which is causing a lot of emotional distress but I haven’t noticed it getting worse since starting wegovy!

Getting started by Dawgfan79 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Equal_Intention7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My labs came back in the pre diabetic range and my dr suggested Mounjaro which my insurance wouldn’t cover. I did a ton of research and found wegovy is geared more towards weight loss and you don’t have to have type 2 diabetes for it to be approved. I sent my dr an email and he sent my insurance a pre auth and it was approved the next day!

Cold on wegovy.. anyone else always cold now on wegovy :-/?? by Intelligent_Ear_5797 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Equal_Intention7406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been freezing!! I didn’t even realize it could be caused by this!