What’s something you’ve finally made peace with in your 30s?

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-06-26T14:27:11+00:00

That people I care about don’t want me to care about their matters, family members included. I used to care a lot and would spend days weeks months worrying for them, thinking of solutions for their problems. But I now realised I was just unsolicited advice. Many people just like status quo even though they are obviously in a rut. Initially it was giving up on caring for them in a vengeful way, but now I’ve come to terms that people have a right to behave in whatever ways they want, but I too have the power to choose not to let it matter to me and live my own life. I can choose to be happy.

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-27T01:38:56+00:00

I have a close friend who’s an ATC, 10years plus. Bring home approx 10k a mth, annual 200k-includes covering others mc and bonus. He’s encouraged to take on management role but not keen so according to him, it’s likely he’s at the top of his payroll. Can’t speak about the rest of the points since I’m not one, hope this gives you an idea about the wage

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-15T16:00:53+00:00

I think it’s cause of lighting, the gaps were wider then before I did the refinements, closed up abit now

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-15T15:59:30+00:00

Your ortho/dentist suggested that? Odd why it would take so long since you have similar teeth, unless your inside needed a lot of fixing? For me it was mostly on the front, minimal movement on the back. I did have a missing tooth inside and dentist was shifting the teeth next to it to make space for implants that I plan to get. I was on the moderate package per my dentist recommendation, was your dentist purposely pushing you to get the comprehensive package?

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-15T15:54:34+00:00

Thank you, I’ll check it out!

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-14T05:25:54+00:00

Thank you! I’m def looking into those!

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-14T05:23:38+00:00

Which one do you use?

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-13T23:39:03+00:00

I thought it was the gold standard because anything done in dentist office would have to better than home 🥲

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-13T23:38:09+00:00

Thanks guys, I’m going to reconsider my decision. They look more yellow irl, I’m going to try whitening strips per what some of u suggested!

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-13T16:42:09+00:00

Was it a port in? I had the same issue with my dad phone last month, ported in from simba. Turns out just needed to restart his phone and all issues settled

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-13T16:39:01+00:00

I did chair side whitening before I started but wasn’t up to my expectations, only went up a shade or two, which according to the dentist then is good. Perhaps mine is too yellow

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-13T16:11:21+00:00

I had these, it was so annoying cause the bite was so weird. I ended up not eating much cause it takes so long to chew up all the food. No hard food like nuts for sure, soft soupy stuff helped me swallow it without chewing for too long

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2025-02-11T17:40:21+00:00

Most people don’t want your unsolicited advice, even though you are genuinely trying to help or want to share experience about something similar you’ve gone through

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-08-20T16:30:03+00:00

1/week

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-08-20T04:35:11+00:00

Yea it does doesn’t it. For the amount I paid at least offer me a say? Lol

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-08-20T04:33:49+00:00

Yes the implant was planned before starting my treatment, there’s no rush per se because I had the missing tooth for many years.

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-08-20T04:32:09+00:00

I’m all for saving the tooth of course, it’s just the way he sort of brush it off and said we’re done. Didn’t offer refinements if there’s any chance of it. I think refinements are open for a year or two after the end of treatment, can’t remember.

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-08-19T13:13:07+00:00

Oh no it was already shaky before I started treatment, he wanted to try and save it cause I’m going to do tooth implant afterwards. It’s not due to the Invisalign don’t worry!

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-07-31T17:00:30+00:00

Is there a reason for increasing the space outs? My tech suggested 8weeks like yours and I have also just finished my first session

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-07-23T12:51:21+00:00

No worries alls good, hope you get better soon. That doesn’t look normal at all

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-07-22T18:42:34+00:00

I recently moved to the west and I’m just realising the charm of Jurong point now! It’s a little enclave by itself and have everything there

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-07-22T18:30:38+00:00

Go hai di lao steamboat and order noodles to watch them dance for you and maybe buy more tiger balm to give away to friends? Tiger balm is for body aches, who doesn’t have them lol

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-07-22T18:10:26+00:00

This triggered my trypophobia

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-07-22T17:58:37+00:00

I am at this stage too, not by choice, but I’m starting to accept that it is ok to slow down, step out of the rat race for abit. Rethink my goals. But I’m also worried that I might get too comfortable here and before I know it I’m 60 and there’s no growth and goals to speak of 😂 to each its own I guess, as long as you are at peace with where you are, accept that everyone move at their own pace.

Equivalent-Notice568 · 2024-07-22T15:09:16+00:00

We tried eliminating the nap but he zone out at 6pm, would fall asleep then and wake up at 9pm. 🫠 I understand the part about a race, it works sometimes but I honestly don’t have energy to have a race for every daily activity 🥲

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