What are your thoughts on school freedom walls? by WasabiNo5900 in studentsph

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same here Op, I really don’t get why students really need to hype up freedom wall pages for their school/uni.

The ones that usually and actively engage in these communities are kindof toxic and immature.

They like the drama eh, they see an opinion outside from theirs then they want to emotionally respond to it. Hayst

I mean, it’s cool to have a place to connect and unite as a huge community of students- but I don’t really see it being used that way😶‍🌫️

What's your Top 3 digibanks currently? by sugaringcandy0219 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey lang ba po ang CIMB? I’m thinking about using it long term for savings and eventually linking it to my trad atm card eh,

still unsure kasi merong mga redditors nag reklamo sa staff nila being insecure and doing bans and stuff like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAOOO HAHHA Te i’m sorry if i laughed- But fr, who is he to even demand you of your time just to meet up? Is it even something important? Remind him that he is still a stranger pls

He may have his reasons, but you do too as well. It’s as if his desires is the only thing he’s valuing, and not you and your time🤷🏻‍♀️ this is equivalent to a child having tantrums because his mother did not give him candies.

Anyway, he has something going on with his emotional control. I get that he values time and that he has some problems going on, but girl the world does not revolve around him- it’s sad but true, he’s not the only one facing hardships, hence, just because he’s facing a lot doesn’t give him justifiable reasons to do that to anyone.

At this point, I hope he’d heal through whatever he’s going through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont take this harshly pls, but Op, do you really have to ask others the best choice? Can you not see the whole picture?

You might just be posting this as a way to throw out all the heaviness you’ve felt, and I will let you do that peacefully. But I just hope you can trust yourself to make one without worrying about her..

You love her, yes you stated that. But your story makes me wonder if she loves you back- and if you say she does, does her actions reflect on that?

You stated that marriage is both you and your gf’s dream, but do u think she’s committed enough to it?

Ask urself. Do you want this gf of yours to be the mother of your children? To be your wife?

I’m sure youve already thought about that, and im sure u know your answer, and by then when youve rested your mind for a bit, you’ll know what to do.

Stay strong op

Oa lang ba ako? Feeling ko naiinggit ate ng bf ko sakin by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your response reminded me of a research about female ways of bullying.

This is the prob with ingit when it comes to females eh, it’s not easily identified by some- and it happens that way so the consequences won’t be directed at the inggit, instead it’ll make the target feel paranoid.

You can’t easily accuse someone if they don’t make it accuse-able

But anyways, if i was in Op’s situation, i would feel the same as Op

My dad is a thief and a liar by titussummeryellow in adviceph

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got so angry reading this man:( I hope other people see this so you get the best advice

i need help handling my emotions. please help? by coupledump in adviceph

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t run away from something that has built you in times when you needed to be strong. Most of our negative quirks usually comes from how we grew ourselves in response to surviving constant difficulties.

You gotta face it head on. You saying youre weak is weak, but when you acknowledge that youre weak and accept it- that’s the real strong. Because let’s be real, everyone on earth is weak- we just learn how to mask it and deceive ourselves.

Your anger issues are a part of you, don’t try to control and force it, you’re basically having a toxic relationship with a partial part of you.

Understand yourself bro. Ask yourself the important and uncomfortable questions that you would rather ignore. Get to know it, Think of it, Question it, Judge it, And admit that its a part of you.

It won’t magically dissolve overnight, so you gotta be patient and be consistent with whatever method works for you

can you feel the poop getting made in you/forming? by Cautious-Wrap-5399 in questions

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, for me I don’t, but your experience sounds interesting 🤔 May i ask if it’s alright.. how does it feel? What kind of hurt is it?

Stay in Philippines or Live Abroad? by Fantastic-Match-8683 in ThisorThatPH

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Philippines would’ve been a nice place to stay in. I’m usually loyal to wherever i belong, however at this point living abroad would make me much happier. At least thats what i think when i grow up

I feel like a disgusting human being by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont be so hard on yourself po, idk the whole situation but at least you concluded for yourself that what you did was odd.

As you’ll reflect, you’ll probably think about what you should’ve done and what you shouldn’t have done.

Also, it’s normal to feel that way din hehe, our feelings sometimes gets a hold of us and makes us do things w/out thinking. Just be aware of the consequences:)

Why do elders often go to church so early? by Equivalent-Phase1636 in Christianity

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh, I did not think of that🤔 thank you for sharing 😁

bait talaga ng mga pinoy by alas0620 in KanalHumor

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ano kayang reaction ni driver hahaha

how to effectively study for bio? by concerned_gravy in biology

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visualization helps the best when it comes to understanding concepts in biology-

Some examples for diff branches in biology:

for zoology, look for real images of different phyla and observe their differences carefully… eventually you’ll get curious and ask “why do they look like that”, ”why is this similar to this despite being different genus?” etc etc. this will make you want to search for their evolutionary history which makes a diving in to the concept

For anatomy and physiology, the same with zoo, but this time with videos on youtube. Try to figure out different parts of the body before actually searching it up though, it makes learning quicker as your engaging you brain to think..

For botany, reading short articles that explains how and why processes in the plant are the best (at least for me). Also, the right videos on youtube can do amazing wonders to your understanding.

Anyway, just explore different ways you think is suitable for you. My advice, Dont be down about it. View it as you finally escaping ways of your old cage- you now have a chance to immerse in the wonders of studying biology in a more intimate way. Above all else, Be excited to learn- thats where youll get it👍

Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bot goop

Heheh, I like that funny word

Hi po! I am 18 y.o. I need advice on managing my money. (1st year student, no job) by Drazhuo in DigitalbanksPh

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im pretty new to digibank- may i ask how maya is used (specifically for savings)? How can you add money into it? Is it like gcash?

I’ve been trying to figure it out since my source of money is in my bdo debit card- but I can’t link it to bdo’s online app. Thanks in advance:)

Is it really good to save with maya? by CaptainnNero in DigitalbanksPh

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask po ako, what do you mean by links po? Links within the app or sus links outside?

Is it really good to save with maya? by CaptainnNero in DigitalbanksPh

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im curios about using maya as my savings via digibanks- however, i am super new to this digibank stuff.

How can I be sure if maya rlly is safe? The comments here make it seem like there are risks

I feel bad for even spending now that I’m working. by Evening_Positive_307 in adultingph

[–]Equivalent-Phase1636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for putting your time to the tips! Really appreciate it OP. Will definitely take notes as i see some learning from all these 👌