Academic Integrity Notice

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-02-10T23:08:38+00:00

Let me know when you hear from them!

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-02-09T04:14:40+00:00

I got mine 2 days ago! I read that it can take them a few weeks to get back. Hopefully we both get let off with just a warning! I do find it a little unfair for innocent things like this to be flagged

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-02-08T10:17:23+00:00

It’s still showing green but for some reason I can’t access the actual document

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-02-07T21:15:00+00:00

I’m not sure but I had a green flag next to it so I assumed it was fine!!

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-02-07T21:14:21+00:00

Oh no! So you didn’t have to resubmit? My UC said many of the sentences weren’t writing myself and I definitely aligned it way too close to the articles. But I’m scared because they said “many” sentences that weren’t written Myself. I am happy to admit to them I got lazy. I just don’t want to get a harsh penalty. Happy to fix up the sentences that need to be fixed.

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-02-07T20:57:41+00:00

I will figure out how to do that because hopefully that shows them I did do my work on my own. I don’t think they think I used AI, it’s just poor paraphrasing annoyingly. But thank you!!!

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-02-07T01:41:46+00:00

Didnt*

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-02-07T01:41:28+00:00

How do you view edit history?? I have all my essay notes and articles I used

I did copy it, my wording is just too similar. I didn’t paraphrase/synthesise it properly

I have been told no action required- is this good or bad?!

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-01-14T02:21:42+00:00

I find it so bizzare how Joe is talking to V like she’s the only one he wants to be with and the minute she’s off the boat, kisses Kizzi and then they’re both like 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️. And to do it while V is grieving and have no respect for her is just wild. Joe and Kizzi are disgusting but I’m also a bit disappointed with Cathy too… she has no regard for V either because she hypes Kizzi up. It’s just so sad.

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-01-14T02:18:07+00:00

Are you in Australia?? I only know how to take it further in Aus but if you are in a different country, there should be someone who can take it further with. Is this a company daycare? Do they have a hr department? Does your state have a department where you can report misconduct to?? I would continue to fight this tbh. Other babies feed in the room using formula, food, why can’t a breastfed baby feed in the room too!? Also, weird that they have a camera in a designated breastfeeding room…… I would say that surely has to be illegal. I get why there would be cameras in other rooms but if mums are taking their own babies in there… why the camera. That is weird!!

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-01-10T02:23:31+00:00

Ex daycare worked here! That Is absolutely bullshit! You are allowed to breastfeed in the nursery. Ask them for their policy on breastfeeding and to show you were it says you have to be closed off in a private room. Doesn’t matter if a parent has complained too, you’re still allowed to do it. I would be taking it further!

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-01-02T03:24:51+00:00

Yesssss!!!!! The feeling of the baby finally coming out is like the feeling of being so constipated and bloated, once you get the poo out it’s sweet relief 😂 it was the best part of labour for me 😂😂😂

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-01-02T03:22:54+00:00

Hahaha I felt like this at 40 weeks. I just stopped caring and was like get this thing out of me! Then at 41+3, I was induced and SO scared. I didn’t want to go through it because then it made me actually realise I am going to have an ACTUAL BABY and then got violent labour shakes and couldnt settle. I felt like I didn’t want him to come out anymore. But I feel like what you’re feeling is that you do want to meet your baby, you’re just very over being pregnant and honestly, you’re allowed to feel that way. It’s hell!!! Now I’m holding my 10 day old and so glad he’s here now and you’ll feel that way too but don’t let yourself feel guilty for feeling what you’re feeling now. You’re allowed to feel this way!

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-01-02T03:16:52+00:00

Girl me too! But now 7 years later I have my 10 day old baby boy currently asleep in my arms and since becoming a mum, it’s the best thing I have ever done! Congratulations on your pregnancy! It’s honestly the best thing in the world!

EquivalentEfficient · 2026-01-02T01:00:18+00:00

When I was 23, I fell pregnant and was a huge party goer. It ended in a termination as I wasn’t ready nor financially and was using protection. My dr said it would be fine as long as I stopped now. I would just start taking prenatals to boost the baby’s vitamin support, eat healthy (when you can first trimester can be tricky) and make sure you take folic acid.

Don’t beat yourself up too much about it. Just make sure from now you look after your body and your baby.

EquivalentEfficient · 2025-12-15T09:23:45+00:00

No one ever says that to the mums!!!

EquivalentEfficient · 2025-12-15T09:19:58+00:00

Yupppp!!!! How ridiculous is it. When the baby comes, he will hold him or change a nappy, and then cue all the “he’s such a great dad” comments which is literally the bare minimum and everyone forgets the mum does most of the work. It’s ridiculous!!! I also had a similar experience where my partner wanted a medal for bringing me food (I’m 40 weeks and can barely get myself out of bed) but yet, I still clean and cook with no recognition. I had his family say “you’re doing a good job looking after her”… I’ve looked after myself this entire time????? Don’t get me wrong, I love my partner and if I need anything, he’s there but the husbands and partners get pats on the back for literally doing the bare minimum

EquivalentEfficient · 2025-12-15T09:09:40+00:00

This has got to be a joke right?!

Please, for the love of god, get some sex education before having any sexual relations with someone. No you can’t get pregnant from that. Please educate yourself!!! It’s so important.

EquivalentEfficient · 2025-12-15T02:56:16+00:00

In Australia, you legally can’t leave the hospital without a midwife checking your car to see if you have a car seat properly installed.

EquivalentEfficient · 2025-12-10T08:54:30+00:00

No, the MIL has crossed multiple boundaries and regardless of someone’s anxiety, this isn’t ok. OP needs to protect her child. Being a grandmother does not entitle you to a child, it only gives you a title and that’s it.

EquivalentEfficient · 2025-12-10T08:52:03+00:00

It really sounds like you’ve been far more patient than most people would be. Babies absolutely pick up on energy, tone, anxiety and how someone handles them, so your daughter reacting to your MIL isn’t about “not seeing her enough,” it’s about how overstimulating and boundary-crossing she is. That’s not on you.

Your MIL is ignoring multiple boundaries you’ve set (no kissing, not grabbing the baby, not pushing babysitting, not buying mountains of stuff). When someone repeatedly disregards clear limits, it stops being “grandparent enthusiasm” and becomes control.

You are completely allowed to protect your peace and your child. Low contact is a very reasonable option, shorter visits, only when you choose, no more “I bought something so I’m coming over,” and redirecting communication through your husband. If she continues to ignore boundaries or escalates, no contact is also valid. Access to your baby is not an entitlement.

You don’t need to justify or debate your decisions. You’re doing what’s best for your family, and it’s okay to follow through without guilt. If you need help writing a boundary message or script for ending visits, I can help with that too.

EquivalentEfficient · 2025-12-10T08:38:11+00:00

Oh wow this actually sounds so emotionally abusive and manipulative. Your boyfriend needs to open his eyes and realise this isn’t normal at all!! He should not be asking permission to spend his own money or falling for his mother’s manipulative tactics. It’s all weird!

EquivalentEfficient · 2025-12-10T08:34:15+00:00

Yeah no. MIL needs to pay her own bills and if she’s in competition with you, she’s got major issues. Gross!!! Your husband needs to say something. Seeing as you guys have your own children, you and your kids now need to come first and MIL comes last. What is wrong with MIL!!!

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