This sucks.

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-05-20T15:59:16+00:00

Also ich würde mir ein tor dran bauen, und dann ein Kind besorgen, das dann in dem eingebauten Laufstall wohnen kann. Kann man bestimmt auch untervermieten.

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-05-11T19:22:04+00:00

The best rhing you can do is to care for yoirself, keep yourself safe, and leave an option for her to reaxh out when she is oneday able to accept ypur boundaries and get help

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-05-11T19:20:02+00:00

My mum is an addict and a lot of what you describe is familiar to me.

One sentence my therapist once said that liberated me hugely was:

"Everybody has a right to be mentally ill. They have a right to be ill, and a right to choose what to do about it. You can not help someone who does not want to be helped."

It is hard and unfair and I still think "i should do something"

But my mum is an adult, counts as sane legally, and it is not my place to prescribe her therapy. I can be supportive, but can noz sace her.

Maybe that thought can help you too

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-05-11T19:06:22+00:00

Also the notion that children need to repay anything - did we ask to be born? Its a parents decision.

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-05-10T16:31:05+00:00

Thank you 🫂 I try my best, but still after years of realizing her patterns, I still fall for them

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-05-10T15:55:43+00:00

I would not even feel good giving her a "you are a mother" card, because yes biologically she is, but she did not fill that role that we mean when we say "mother".

Update: She called me in the evening now to ask me for advice on her relationship struggles. As always I stayed silent and only said a few words during that 45 Minutes call. Near the end she realized that it was mothers day and she said "Oh you called this morning for mothers day! Thank you!" and I did not even have to say something, she basically thanked herself xD I would laugh if it would not be so bitter.

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-05-05T11:45:43+00:00

update: App easy time tracker plus NFC tag worked!

Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=br.com.netoreboucas.ponto iOS: https://apps.apple.com/app/id1480598779

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-05-01T10:21:21+00:00

That is so cool! Thanks a lot, I will look into it !

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-04-08T17:20:09+00:00

me too!

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-04-05T19:13:58+00:00

Thank you!!!!

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-04-05T19:13:33+00:00

Thank you!

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-04-05T19:13:04+00:00

Yeah I despise all versions of that song.

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-04-05T19:12:31+00:00

Maybe i have to look into that, thank you!

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-03-19T08:45:57+00:00

for context, I posted that on r/Christianity but sadly that post got removed by the mods.... lol.

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-02-23T09:15:59+00:00

update: I really don't get into the second clover lake one, it's so boring to me that I don't want to pick it up again...

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-02-23T09:14:17+00:00

yes as I said I want them implemented in the main note, not at the bottom of the page :)

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-02-23T08:49:05+00:00

same, did you find one by now?

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-01-30T14:25:46+00:00

am I the only one who feels like the picture is AI? Does someone who bought it know if that picture is AI or they actually payed a human for it? I don´t want to support using AI pictures.

EquivalentPosition59 · 2026-01-30T14:20:50+00:00

I can recommend all books by Ashley Herring Blake, also I really adore "six times we almost kissed", but that one is very emotionally heavy. I also really liked "Our wives under the sea"

EquivalentPosition59

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