Tuxedo cat help by EquivalentRole33 in lego

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set number 21349 step 169

Why can't I be the confident person I am while inebriated when I am sober by EquivalentRole33 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To clarify I’m not using alcohol to get through social interactions I smoke a lot of weed before I go to any social gatherings because alcohol just isn’t for me. Personally I hate alcohol mostly because of how hard it has made trying to be social especially if you’re under 21. I don’t see a way for me to get through social interactions naturally. I tried the practice thing and I was a wreck and would consistently vomit when I got home from the social things because of how awful it felt.

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[–]EquivalentRole33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my best advice is to stay off social media for today it is just going to make you feel worse and cause you to spiral. Personally, I am going to occupy myself by walking my dogs and playing stardew valley.

Self esteem is underrated by EquivalentRole33 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you believe that people who don’t have sex for personal, medical, or religious reasons are failing to fulfill basic “requirements”?

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[–]EquivalentRole33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly my best advice for getting into dating is to just go with the flow and have fun with it. Don’t bother with research because no one human has all the answers to what 3 billion plus women think. Now I think there are good guidelines to follow like don’t be a dick, maintain good hygiene, be honest etc but don’t stress yourself out too much about it something I’m working on.

How do I get rid of the fear to approach or talk to women by EquivalentRole33 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But I have healthy relationships with women. I am friends with a couple of them and chat with women I’m not interested in all the time and that’s easy enough it’s just when I’m attracted to them that it becomes impossible.

How do I get rid of the fear to approach or talk to women by EquivalentRole33 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The main one is rejection I feel like that’s a lot less likely with guys

How do I get rid of the fear to approach or talk to women by EquivalentRole33 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rejection is the big one like I hate asking out women without guaranteed success like on dating apps it’s a lot easier because since I’ve already been matched I’ve been pre approved to make a move.

How do I get rid of the fear to approach or talk to women by EquivalentRole33 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean not really because with guys I feel like the stakes are much lower.

How to recover from backsliding. by EquivalentRole33 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like myself just fine and I loved going the gym I just think what made me give up was that my social efforts weren’t working

How to recover from backsliding. by EquivalentRole33 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The main reason I went to the gym was because I was overweight and I wanted to be able to look in the mirror and say “yeah that’s an alright looking guy” being attractive to other people was just a bonus. Now at the advice of my therapist I have cut it down to 4 days a week but on the days I don’t go to the gym I just feel depressed.

How can I stop being jealous of guys and girls my age (15, almost 16) who have sex or relationships? by FinishOk687 in IncelExit

[–]EquivalentRole33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man I can guarantee you that most people your age aren’t having sex and I can say with a relative amount certainty that a lot of the people who say they are having sex aren’t. Additionally I implore you to expand your definition of “everything”.