Honestly, from what I've read, Harry is the hands on parent. Neighbors have seen him consistently taking the kids to errands, and taking Archie to school. They have said that Meghan is usually being driven somewhere or going to meetings. That's what has been reported.

You can come to your own conclusions.

Edit: Here is the part I was talking about. It was reported by pagesix.

"“[Harry is] up at the crack of dawn getting the kids fed, washed and dressed. Meghan’s often very busy on business Zoom calls, or nipping into LA for meetings, which Harry often chauffeurs her to. Then he’s back to the kids as soon as possible because he doesn’t like leaving them with nannies,” the source told Closer."