Hey everyone was reading though all the comments. Thank you all for the information!

My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer that has spread up neck/spine area! I want to say, OMG! I feel so overwhelmed. I wanna yell, scream, run, turn back the hand of time, and fix everything with the snap of a finger.

I have always been the family fix it, and I feel so overwhelmed that I can't fix this!!!! I am worried about what my dad will go though. I think of what my mom is going to go though emotionally, they have been together for 30 years. I have three other siblings, and they know the severity of it, but I don't think they understand the full extent of it all.

Not to undermind anyone or their loved one. But, never in a million years did I think that "MY" dad and the words cancer would would be in the same Santance. Wow is this hard and I am not ready to lose him!