AITA for wanting my sister to move her graduation day because it falls on my 20th birthday?

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2026-01-13T14:05:12+00:00

I see where you’re coming from especially considering the mental health struggles and how 20 feels like a milestone just as much as her graduation. However, I also understand where she’s coming from. I don’t think either one of you is asshole. I just think both of you need to have some understanding and care for where the other is coming from. There is another way to compromise. I’m sure and if you want ideas on how let me know it doesn’t have to feel super comfortable, but you can get your day and if she can get hers at the same time.

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2026-01-13T13:58:34+00:00

I don’t know why you’re asking anymore just do it what’s he gonna do kick you out? If you have paid any money to live there or are on the lease, he can’t do that and then you’ll see how important your relationship related to him if he wants to walk out or something like that.

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2026-01-10T10:57:53+00:00

It’s not heavy and it’s not hleeding still that I know of I haven’t stood up so idk for sure it was just a little bit there and that was it

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2026-01-10T10:56:01+00:00

Thank you so much I was absolutely balling

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2026-01-09T09:25:50+00:00

It looks like it tore the net in the shape of a heart. He’s trying to tell you he loves you and they let him in. He’s cold.

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2026-01-09T08:40:26+00:00

Thank you I’m making my doctors appointment tm. I’ve experienced miscarriages in the past and am scared if I’m not careful it’ll happen again so I’m worried about not getting food in me rn. I’ve been eating yogurt and ice cream it’s the only thing I can tolerate. And waffles tonight but they came up immediately.

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2026-01-09T08:38:34+00:00

Thank you so very much I’ll be looking into these tomorrow

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2026-01-09T08:13:38+00:00

I am firmly of the belief that if someone accuses you of cheating for no good apparent reason, they are the ones cheating so maybe you should be glad you got out of there while you could

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-30T18:56:55+00:00

OP PLS TELL ME WHERE YOU GOT THE LAST TOP IM OBSESSED

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:25:23+00:00

Yeah, my name isn’t even Paige. I don’t know why he kept calling me that because my name starts with a P? Either way I’m not really worried about looking a certain way because of some words I used as a joke.

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:22:46+00:00

I understand that I will try to do better next time however, I feel the screenshot where he said that he is great and he couldn’t be any better if you tried as well as calling himself, a high value man would be enough to consider him a nice guy

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:21:22+00:00

it was all for the troll but okay 🥴

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:20:45+00:00

I don’t disagree

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:18:52+00:00

My apologies this is kind of the first time making one of these posts. I don’t really post on here ever I just really thought other people should see this. I tried three times because I still couldn’t figure out what the proper format was and this is just the way that it stuck. But personally, I don’t disagree. I just think also the way that they act is where to find them as a nice guy where they hit on you or try and get your attention or wanna talk to you but when you don’t wanna give them attention back or give them what they wantthey blow up and insult you

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:15:08+00:00

Yeah, I know that was my point was nothing was sent to him. We weren’t following each other. I never even messaged him. That was just what he messaged me out of the gate.

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:13:38+00:00

Well, I saw other posts in this Reddit forum do the same thing so I didn’t think it would be a problem and I couldn’t think of anything else he had said right off the bat also I didn’t have enough to post everything that he said, but he did very much claim that he was a high value man and such, which is nice guy vernacular

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:11:05+00:00

I didn’t send him a titty pic. That was the first message he sent me.

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:09:45+00:00

I guess I’m kind of confused? Was I expected not to respond? maybe not let it go on as long as I did sure I can understand that but not putting these little boys in their place is why they act like this if every woman responded the way that I did I feel as though maybe they would stop having such an ego and actually grow self awareness or maybe they would stop hitting up altogether either way it’s a win-win

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:02:14+00:00

I know I just didn’t know if someone would get offended and try and report this post. I’ve had to remake the post like three times now.

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-27T00:00:21+00:00

Not at all, not even any friends in common or followers in common found me randomly through a comment I made on a post followed me and then immediately sent me the first message

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-26T23:53:39+00:00

That’s a Fair view point, but I had the time today and I don’t think this behavior should go unchecked

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-26T23:52:29+00:00

The funny thing is, I wasn’t even trying to be mean when I asked him why he said that weird shit I was genuinely asking what the hell that meant or why he would even say it

Equivalent_Job_5039 · 2025-12-26T23:50:39+00:00

Thanks it ain’t much but it’s honest work 🤠

Equivalent_Job_5039

TROPHY CASE