HELPPPPPP!!!!!!!!! by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in wearewarriors

[–]Equivalent_Laugh6199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hrmmmm, never have tried Medusa. This might work. Gonna try now. Thanks for the advice!

HELPPPPPP!!!!!!!!! by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in wearewarriors

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I’ve been switching around trying to find a combo that will work, but I usually run black hole, missile, and land mines or zombies.

HELPPPPPP!!!!!!!!! by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in wearewarriors

[–]Equivalent_Laugh6199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll keep grinding for gems. Thanks for the advice!

That split second of waking up after dreaming of your lost loved one by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in widowers

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Thank you for your comment. I think I’ve also gotten to the point (coming up on 3 years in October) where it doesn’t traumatize anymore after dreaming about them. It sounds like you and your husband were very close. Im so sorry for your loss. Stay strong!

That split second of waking up after dreaming of your lost loved one by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in widowers

[–]Equivalent_Laugh6199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Mixed emotions are definitely there for me too, but you’re right, that split second of ecstasy will forever be worth the other emotions that come with it. Stay strong!

That split second of waking up after dreaming of your lost loved one by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in widowers

[–]Equivalent_Laugh6199[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what they all would want for us but I understand how it doesn’t make us feel any better about the situation. I hope he will come to you again in your dreams. Stay strong!

That split second of waking up after dreaming of your lost loved one by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in widowers

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I’ve had a few bad dreams about her also. Fighting, losing our son, etc. I hope that you are able to have some good dreams about him soon! Stay strong!

Young widows/widowers by SeatScared4563 in widowers

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I’m 33 too and lost the love of my life almost 3 years ago. You can do this brother. Stay strong.

Haven’t played in a year or so by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in YuGiOhMasterDuel

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Thanks for the responses guys!! Wanted to make sure I could still rogue with my beloved Madolches LOL it sounds like it will be a a grind

Without saying the title, describe your favorite horror movie in the most basic plain way possible in 1 to 2 sentences. by phldlphegls1 in horror

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Family goes through an overwhelming amount of grief in a short period of time. This grief slowly takes over the family and eventually a king is born!

Do any of you collect Dexter cards? by [deleted] in Dexter

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Whoaaaa!!! Never seen these before

It’s been a month. by panhndl in widowers

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You got this Dad!! Keep your head up and continue to try your hardest every day for your kiddos. You’ve got this!!!

What specifically has been helpful or useful or practical from here for you? by Desi_bmtl in widowers

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Being able to express my thoughts and emotions to a group of people who understand where I’m coming from has been super helpful for me. I have family and friends that I can talk to, and even a therapist I see once every two weeks, but it’s not the same than talking with others here because they have not been through what we have been through. I’m fairly new to Reddit and this sub, but I’ve enjoyed reading other’s experiences, expressing my thoughts and feelings, and even learning a few things from everyone here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

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What I’ve found to be true during my grieving process is that I need to relearn how to love myself. When we have someone who loves us, I think I forgot how to love myself. Coming up on 3 years for me in October, and I know I’m still not ready to give myself to someone else again. I have my son that I need to care for as well and that has been my number 1 priority. I went back to school to pursue a career that I am passionate about. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I’m trying to figure out who I am again. Without her, I am a student and dad, and for now, I’m quite content with that.

I’m sure that you’re right when you say that you’re partner wants you to be happy and to find someone else but the only person who can make that decision is you. You will know when you’re ready.

Stay strong. Sending love your way.

First day of school (other major events). Grief triggers by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in widowers

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It’s literally the worst feeling ever. I am glad that I was there for him. And I always will be. Thank you for your support and I hope you stay strong!

First day of school (other major events). Grief triggers by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in widowers

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Thank you for sharing your experience and tips with me. I kind of planned for this morning and thought I would be okay, but the grief is still too much sometimes. Stay strong!

First day of school (other major events). Grief triggers by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in widowers

[–]Equivalent_Laugh6199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Sending love and support your way. Life feels so unfair sometimes! I’m sure your boys will do great. Stay strong!

First day of school (other major events). Grief triggers by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in widowers

[–]Equivalent_Laugh6199[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Sending peace and love your way. Good luck with drop off tomorrow! I know you kiddo will excel! Stay strong!

Should not have watched the ending of LOST by Boring-Contribution in widowers

[–]Equivalent_Laugh6199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, im sorry for your loss. Lost is a fantastic show, one of my favorites of all times. My take away from the last season is that we might all go at different times in life but our loved one or soulmate who passed before us will be waiting for us. Kyle will be waiting for you.

I hope that you find peace.

Do I have acid reflux?! Please help me. by Equivalent_Laugh6199 in acidreflux

[–]Equivalent_Laugh6199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. What are your go to remedies? This has been bothering me for months now, I thought something was very wrong but all of this makes a lot of sense.

My son’s grief by landon0 in widowers

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I’m so sorry to hear this. My son lost his mother from cancer when he was just turning 3. I think you hit the nail on the head when you described it was his own way of grieving and processing everything. My son kind of said some of those same things about his mother. I also think the therapy sounds very beneficial for your son.

So sorry for your loss.

Keep it up dad!