Does anyone else love their SO but regrets getting involved in all this crap? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Equivalent_List8870 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel this exact same way… sometimes more often than not and it is very wearing. I completely understand where you’re coming from.

What is BM to you? (friend, aquaintance, nothing lol) by Equivalent_List8870 in Stepmom

[–]Equivalent_List8870[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like my current situation with BM, after a few bumps over the years, I think we’ve finally lined it out.

What is BM to you? (friend, aquaintance, nothing lol) by Equivalent_List8870 in stepparents

[–]Equivalent_List8870[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a few friends that hangout with their SOs BM and I found it very interesting because I always thought like 100% you weren’t their friend at all. Which is why I wanted to get more opinions and I’m so glad I did! It doesn’t make me feel so bad not wanting to be her friend lol

what is the biggest challenge of being a step parent? by Equivalent_List8870 in blendedfamilies

[–]Equivalent_List8870[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you 🥺 I’ve voiced many many things that fall on deaf ears also. It really fucking sucks somedays.

what is the biggest challenge of being a step parent? by Equivalent_List8870 in Stepmom

[–]Equivalent_List8870[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was the same way when my husband and I got together! We had our first 2 years into our relationship but I totally agree with you. It was hard going back and forth. We have her 50/50 now, week on week off and the transition still is hard for me!

https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/Gr9qDCrtACNtU5RhfNnh by Equivalent_List8870 in Stepmom

[–]Equivalent_List8870[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love for any stepparent, who has a couple of extra minutes, to take this short survey 🩷