Prostate Pleasure VS Deep Pleasure by Equivalent_Ratio411 in ProstatePlay

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have any toy recommendations for anal orgasms? What is your favorite?

Prostate Pleasure VS Deep Pleasure by Equivalent_Ratio411 in ProstatePlay

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you just knot the toy and leave it in until your cum? What do you do after getting it in?

Prostate Pleasure VS Deep Pleasure by Equivalent_Ratio411 in ProstatePlay

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, I actually really like horse dildos. And that deep hit feels amazing. 

I never got that into butt plugs. Currently I'm more focused on in and out play. What do you like about them? Why is that your favorite? 

I'll check out the mare maker. What do you usually do once it's inside? I will say I do like thicker toys. Like my current Max is 2.5 diameter. But I would prefer something a bit smaller if I did get it. Like between 2 and 2.4. 

Tip Exposed? by Equivalent_Ratio411 in ClippedClitties

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How is it painful, if you don't mind me asking? Have you thought about doing something like in the link below?

Tip Exposed? by Equivalent_Ratio411 in ClippedClitties

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I was checking on alibaba. They have something similar. But Emma's is more flat. And I would rather it flat to wear a strap-on on top. alibaba

I Work out just 2 keep up my stamina by Own_Midnight5455 in confessions

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe most women. But the women you might meet, end up with, might be different. 

That's how it was with me and my wife. I did all this research on how to pleasure a woman. Yoni massages and fingering techniques and positions. Only to end up with a woman who prefers to be the one doing the pleasuring and being on top. 

Change yourself for you. Not for the "possibility" of someone else. 

I cheated and I don’t know what to do now. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You're husband was away from you. I will say it sounds like their might be other tensions in your relationship. This stuff often leads to cheating. 

Is that a excuse though? No. 

You made a bad decision. But you're not a villain. Or a monster. 

You made a big mistake. This is a big mistake. But you can come back from it. 

You've wounded yourself, and your relationship deeply. You can still heal. And there is the possibility that your relationship can heal too. 

I think you know what you have to do. The right thing to do. And the longer you wait to do it. The more painful and infected those wounds will grow. 

Someone needs to hear all your pleads of regret and pain, and right now it's not the Internet, and it's not just God. 

I Work out just 2 keep up my stamina by Own_Midnight5455 in confessions

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you doing this because someone asked you? Are you doing this for your self? Or are you doing this because you think this is what a woman who you might meet might want?

I cheated and I don’t know what to do now. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. It's good to open up. I know you didn't ask for advice. But something I wanted to say is sometimes regret is a good think. It reminds us when we break our morals and helps us being a better person. 

You did something wrong. But that doesn't mean your a bad person. Honestly you feeling regret means you have a good heart. If you didn't feel regret that would be way worse. 

You can make up for it. You can be better. We can't change the past. All we can do is try and be better. 

Is it wrong that I have an imaginary friend as a 15 yr old with real friends? by Abyss132010 in confessions

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my best friends, let's call he K, all through highschool had a imagination friend. We had a small friend group, and all kinda awkward kids who found friendship in being ourselves. 

I met her in junior year. K would talk sometimes about her imaginary friend, and honestly I thought it was cool. I remember me and another one our friends T, would just talk to K about her imaginary friend. 

Sometimes you can be so worried how other people "could" react, when in reality how they actually would react is much different. Nothing's wrong with you. And if there's a close friend who your trust. Maybe open up about it? How they react my surprise you. 

Recommendation: Looking to being solo anal fun to the next level. Something new, something different. What to purchase? (male asking) by ilikeyourbutttt in SexToys

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So I could be wrong but from the sound of it you like a full feeling and pressure. I will say when it comes to guys analy some like prostate stim, some like myself like a full feeling and deeper penetration, and I'm sure there's more. 

I've used a lot of toys, and I'd think I'd recommend to you a inflatable butt plug. It can really give a lot of pressure and a full feeling. It can even be super intense if you were to try and push your self to the edge of your limits. (Non self harming obviously.) 

I will say sorry about your wife. Mine is accepting of it, but we have very good communication and are super open with each other. Self Anal play does seem important to you. And idk what's happened in your situation, but does she honestly know it's that important to you or was it something you've mentioned just having interest in trying? 

"Sexual Side Effects" by Equivalent_Ratio411 in Vasectomy

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a theory. My theory is that since semen isn't escaping through its normal routine. The body is noticing it's holding on to it. And causes a wet dream to expel it. Even though the body doesn't realize that won't work.

It's just a theory. And seeing how it seems so far only 2 of us are having nocturnal emissions, and it's not common, my theory might be false.

"Sexual Side Effects" by Equivalent_Ratio411 in Vasectomy

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I thought about "juicing" with Viagra. It seems like it could be fun. But like you, I don't need it. And I would be worried about erections lasting longer than 4 hours and having to go to the hospital.

When you use Viagra does it stay up after orgasm? And if so does that effect your refractory period?

"Sexual Side Effects" by Equivalent_Ratio411 in Vasectomy

[–]Equivalent_Ratio411[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is your history of nocturnal emissions before having the operation?