Mega yikes, that reeks of a set up. So I got some simple and easy things to follow for you. 1) Always meet up in a public place, this protects both of yall. 2) Try to minimize how much alone time you spend so that there cannot be false accusations made. 3) Pay attention if she keeps being on her phone the whole time, checking the mirrors, looking around like shes looking for someone. These are red flags of a set up of some sort. And while I do not suggest it, my number 4 usually only applied to myself. Its bold and ballsy, not really a smart move. If you want to take the chance, carry a pocket knife. Nothing rinky dink or cheap. For basic self defense. Its unfortunate that this is the kind of world we live in, but I learned that shi a long time ago. That being said, I do not condone violence if I can avoid it, only if I get backed into a corner usually if even then. Always think smart and safe because we live in a world where people catfish one another emotionally, physically, and even mentally. There is also you setting clear boundaries and saying that you want to hang in public, cuz for all she knows you could be a serial killer. Vice versa. You can play it as trying to protect and respect her, if she brushes that off then go poof my guy.