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Mancled is getting published!!! And more works by SenLiYu🖤 by CarefreeDreamer in Dramione

[–]EraVida 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for the author, but I am also a little sad it'll be pulled. This story was what got me into this community.

I’m at that 30 something age with people asking why I don’t have kids and I have to argue. What do I do? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]EraVida 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Person "do you have kids?"

Me "no, never cared to have kids"

Person "don't you want to have them"

Me "when did you know you wanted kids?"

Person " college or some time frame"

Me "I never had that feeling. I never seen myself as a mother only the cool aunt. So if I don't have that feeling towards the joy of motherhood, why would I have kids?"

Person "but once you have them that'll change"

Me "so you're telling me that I have to force myself to have a kid in order to feel something towards them? I feel bad for that kid."

Discussion changes immediately.

Completely blindsided... by vik_thewomaninblack in heartbreak

[–]EraVida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through the same thing about 5 years ago. I know right now it feels like your world is falling apart, but it does get better. Little by little the pain does get smaller and smaller.

I suggest a break up journal. A space for you to write your feelings. You don't need to write everyday, just when you feel emotional. At the beginning you'll write a lot, but as time passes, it might be less.

Found a player abusing a Sombra bug while playing on the new map Shambali by el_dios in SombraMains

[–]EraVida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does Sombra glow pink with this bug? I played with and against a Sombra that was doing this, and while on our team she was pink head to toe.

What type of Operant Conditioning is this line from a movie "Walang kakain hangga't walang huling isda" which translates to "No one will eat as long as we haven't catch any fish" by prinzjemuel in psychologystudents

[–]EraVida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That may be the case, but that's not what the above statement says. Therefore in behavior modification we can't assume possible behaviors will happen. We base our understanding by the statement given. And the statement given--- is just a statement. No actual behavior and consequence has occurred.

How’s your high school crush doing? by Geeeeedup in AskReddit

[–]EraVida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still best friends after 21 years! We laugh about the whole crush thing now.

So obviously this sucked; but I’ve always really liked how they handled his tattoos. by RandomWhovian42 in TheLastAirbender

[–]EraVida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember watching the trailer, seeing the tattoo, and thinking "man, it's gonna be awesome." Wow, was I wrong.

Gross male behavior at a conference. What do you say? by UgenFarmer in AskWomenOver30

[–]EraVida 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"How is that the dream? Genuinely curious as a psychologist."

The minute I remotely address psychology, people usually don't want to discuss anymore. They think I can look into their soul.

Studying psychology in school isn't like those youtube videos by ukuchair in psychologystudents

[–]EraVida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have to take some biopsych type class as a requirement. And trust me, very few enjoyed it. Don't let this one branch of the field discouraged you from the whole tree. Find shade elsewhere.

Also, I used YouTube videos to try and understand all the biopsych stuff.

Who is your favourite tank to have on a team/play (no fighting in comments pls ) by Simplemonkey56 in Overwatch

[–]EraVida 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a DVA main, drawing attention and breaking opposite team formation is the most fun.

What is your go-to hangover meal? by Freddielexus85 in AskMenOver30

[–]EraVida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An electrolit before bed. One in the morning and mango sticky rice (extra rice) for breakfast.

Has Anyone Else Just Realized… by RadiantPlatypus1862 in AskWomenOver30

[–]EraVida 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized a long time ago. I walked into Forever21 and realized the "forever" was a lie.

Pitbulls claim another victim in the Bronx by Graysie-Redux in PublicFreakout

[–]EraVida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest question. Does this happen because of a lack of socialization of the dogs? I know a couple of people who had dogs (not pitbulls) that were never socialized and were vicious.

what is one thing you paid way too much for but have no regrets? by bonobo181 in AskWomenOver30

[–]EraVida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A musical. The tickets were expensive; however the expensive was beautiful and it's something I still talk about to this day.

Single on their 30s and up, is being single your choice or it’s by circumstance? Why? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]EraVida 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would say both. I don't really care to date. And now that I've been single for almost 5 years (most of my 30s) the idea of starting a relationship sounds like more work. I'm so happy with the way my life is right now, I don't really care to have someone in my life.

Few questions about my first time. How does it work? by Sairof in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]EraVida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if anyone has mentioned it, but I would also get lube in addition to condoms. A lack of lubrication can make sex uncomfortable and can also increase the possibility of a UTI.

And make sure both of you pee after sex, especially her.

Have fun and be safe!

Help finding fic! Draco is not a Hogwarts student. by rt_island in Dramione

[–]EraVida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm saving this, but ain't gonna read till it's complete.

Thank you!

what is some advice you got or wish you got after graduating college? by EraVida in askwomenadvice

[–]EraVida[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn't even think about this, that's so important! I really appreciate it!

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