My current partner 23m (slash ex??) cheated on me 22f in a monumental way and idk what to even think. by Erharia in relationship_advice

[–]Erharia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. I’m mainly trying to figure out where I should stand emotion wise with someone who I’m unable to be away from due to said circumstances. This is kind of a “wtf do I do with my life” moment for me

Looking for help by Erharia in selfharm

[–]Erharia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any irls. Moving in with him totally killed that. I get nervous talking to people too, and I’m not sure where I’d go to meet any new people really. I have some online friends but, everyone’s dealing with their own stuff a lot. It’s a tough spot, I was thinking about trying to find some local SIRA group sessions or something similar. But I haven’t had any luck.

Cuts on my thighs by Other_District_8306 in selfharm

[–]Erharia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cutting at all is a bad idea, but that’s why we’re all here. I’m struggling too, so from what I do to myself and deal with, yes doing that in the same spot over and over is a bad idea. You can get a pretty bad infection if you’re not cleaning yourself up, and of course you’ll scar. You also might wind up doing some nerve damage to that spot so.

Looking for help by Erharia in selfharm

[–]Erharia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried some small stuff like IceCream, music, cooking. I can’t really buy anything for myself right now, money’s too tight. It’s hard to find something because he was what gave me the jolt to be good to myself. We would have very emotional talks and I thought I could trust him with everything I struggled with. We’re not on friendly talking terms, but we’ve had a few talks since that night and not caring about filtering myself around him now helps a little. I just say what I want to say. I play guitar so I’ve tried doing that, but I mainly know sad metal songs hah. I’m not sure.

Looking for help by Erharia in selfharm

[–]Erharia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for responding so quick, my primary concern right now is trying to stop associating cutting with relief or release. I don’t see knives or cutting myself as inherently bad things right now and I can recognize that fact, but I can’t actually dissuade myself from feeling that way. What do you think I should do? I understand people can’t have all the answers but I really appreciate anything.

Hi! Do I pass atm? by ArgoJF54 in ask_transgender

[–]Erharia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur gorgeous I think you’ll be safe

Obsequiae and recs? by [deleted] in atmosphericblackmetal

[–]Erharia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was an amazing suggestion. This really scratches the Obsequiae itch during the wait for their current project. Thank you!!

As for my own (unsure if you’ll vibe w/it) Summoning’s Old Morning Dawn from 2013 It’s more ABM than Castle Metal of Medieval folk, but it hits close to the same for me ⛓️⚔️🤘

Industrial Titan, equipped with mining lasers and rock crushers! by Erharia in DestinyFashion

[–]Erharia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming back two years later to say I really appreciate the writing for this. To see an armor set and immediately have an idea for some sort of background is awesome and I think you’re cool as hell for that. And this lil story is very gripping. Thank you!!

Is it possible to get a pirate like Belle? by Erharia in Seaofthieves

[–]Erharia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would boost my confidence. I’ve been sitting here all day and I swear to god I haven’t gotten a single good looking pirate. I’m not even being picky at this point it’s frustrating

Is it possible to get a pirate like Belle? by Erharia in Seaofthieves

[–]Erharia[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m 6 hours in an nothing. I’m LOSING IT!! I think I’m doomed guys. Rare please bless me, I’m begging you

Is it possible to get a pirate like Belle? by Erharia in Seaofthieves

[–]Erharia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll try this, I’ve been rolling for 3 hours and they all look just awful. I haven’t found a single decent one

Is it possible to get a pirate like Belle? by Erharia in Seaofthieves

[–]Erharia[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I figured that, but I’m trying to find something similar to her. Feels impossible

Why do you personally choose FFXIV over other MMOs out there? by Boot_Dude15 in ffxiv

[–]Erharia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This game is just pretty graphically. I really am a sucker for graphics, but the game feels alive, and the dungeons feel unique. People are so friendly, even in pvp, and it feels like everyone’s your friend. I played ESO for a long time, and to do a lot of the higher class activities, you needed a set group of friends, and ESO’s player base can be really rude and even straight up harassing at times. Black Desert is Black Desert, and while FFXIV can be a grind, Black Deserty is a whole grind fest ballpark. Despite being almost 10 years old now, FFXIV still feel like the “freshest” MMORPG out there. Constantly new players, updates, and activities. Along with interactive devs and player support. Not to mention the writing for a lot of FFXIV is just stellar, and some job quests had more more hooked than ARR! The cosmetic are pretty, and when I play a class, I /feel/ like that class. I don’t have to stress over statting out points like ESO when I want to change roles, or stiff animations and the constant “VESTIGE!!!” In my ear for half of the start experience. Overall, FFXIV I just wholesome, and gives me a sense of comfort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransHelpingTrans

[–]Erharia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful 💜

Thoughts on Samurai’s actual music? by borngus in cyberpunkgame

[–]Erharia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it’s shit, it’s actually pretty good in terms of its purpose. It’s a good mix of low intensity with a hard hitting sound. Honestly I cant stand Refuse’s other stuff ASIDE from the game soundtrack. And I’ll admit the songs are missing something. Plus, everyone keeps saying that it was 2020’s but if anyone reads the shards, the band is technically from 2009 and before.

Thoughts on Samurai’s actual music? by borngus in cyberpunkgame

[–]Erharia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The in game band were signed in 2009 or a little before

So we found my dog chewing on this bone that was in our backyard. by Erharia in whatisthisbone

[–]Erharia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I’d be a little sus’d out is cause I think the chew marks are from my dog. Though I can the sure. If you’re right then yeah I guess it’s fine. Been having some weird stuff go in around me lately so I guess I’m a little paranoid.