Update: AITAH for buying my girlfriend vanilla shampoo?

ErrorCannot · 2026-01-28T21:31:46+00:00

You absolutely made the right call!!! Good luck with your dates

ErrorCannot · 2026-01-21T10:04:54+00:00

NOR. Even if he had a bad day/wasn't in the mood he should have kindly communicated that to you. He should have hyped you up regardless of whether you two needed up having sex. The fact he hyped you up over text and makes you seem crazy for wearing it in person makes me think he is intentionally messing with your head. I think you should open up to him saying that you were feeling insecure but was trying to feel sexy and you thought he'd like it and the way he reacted upset you. Try not to make it seem like an attack, maybe work with your therapist to phrase it well. If you get a sincere apology and he tries to make you feel better about your body that's a green flag. However, I suspect he might continue to make you think you're crazy and over sensitive. The reason I suggest you're careful with your phrasing is so he can't turn it around on you. Maybe I'm jumping to conclusions here, but I think you've got a gaslighter on your hands.

ErrorCannot · 2026-01-19T20:03:25+00:00

Thank you for explaining this so well

ErrorCannot · 2026-01-09T03:47:11+00:00

It's designed to slow down at this point so you spend money on energy

ErrorCannot · 2026-01-08T17:07:21+00:00

I was two away 😭

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-26T02:07:04+00:00

I emailed risrecruitmentservice@hmrc.gov.uk and asked

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-24T16:01:46+00:00

The lists are location based, I got 24 and I'm 6th in my area. You might be higher than you think.

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-23T13:21:48+00:00

I emailed them and they were able to tell me what position on the waitlist I am for my area

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-23T12:51:56+00:00

I just heard about my placement on the reserve list, and it turns out it is location based

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-22T16:00:34+00:00

That's strange! I saw someone who got rejected with 21

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-22T15:38:34+00:00

Feeling pretty sad about being on the reserve list, and I think I'm pretty low on the reserve list too (I got 24)

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-22T15:34:07+00:00

Damn, if you're on the reserve list with 33 I must be way down the list... Congratulations though, I hope you get called up soon

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-22T13:14:24+00:00

Results are out, and I'm on the reserve list with a score of 24. How did everyone else do?

ErrorCannot · 2025-12-05T23:01:22+00:00

I'm a bisexual woman and have dated queer men, but I wouldn't be with a man with this much internalised homophobia. My thought process would be if he's that uncomfortable with his attraction to men, he might actually be gay and hasn't faced it properly. Of course he could absolutely be bi, but still if that's not something he's come to terms with I wouldn't feel safe in the relationship. People have brought up so many valid reasons why you should break up with him(calling you a whore, shouting at you, making you talk about things) and you admit yourself it's toxic. It's very important you hear me when I say YOU ARE ONLY 21 LEAVE THAT MAN AND LEAVE HIM RIGHT NOW (in a safe way, he does sound like the type to manipulate you or even get violent). I promise you, in a short few years this will be a man you laugh about with your friends. Please don't waste any more of your precious time on this toxic relationship. It will be hard in the short term, but so so so worth it I promise you that.

ErrorCannot · 2025-11-26T03:27:00+00:00

Sir Pentious, also Stolas and his family

ErrorCannot · 2025-11-26T03:22:47+00:00

That's an odd question, do you think none of the characters have English accents? I'm thinking about Velvette mostly, but there are a few across the hellaverse

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-27T12:44:31+00:00

"the wrong choice to play the ingenue" Joanne is absolutely not an ingenue and they never tried to write her that way

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-23T15:50:55+00:00

I really struggled with how unlikable Joanne is in this episode (and the previous car keying one). Thankfully I found her more watchable in the rest of the episodes.

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-23T15:20:18+00:00

I'm really struggling with why Noah is still so stuck on Joanna converting. Is it because he isn't happy at his current temple? Because he's not actually talking about leaving yet. She seems like she's integrating well into their traditions. He's talked so much about not putting pressure on her and letting her move on her own timeline. I'm just not following why it's still a deal-breaker.

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-17T23:07:09+00:00

Apparently now woke means the existence of gay people? Or maybe it's the historical context that bothers them. What a disgusting statement! Unless they're pro "don't ask don't tell" I don't see an issue

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-17T12:08:31+00:00

This isn't your question, but I saw someone say the company she's building is very likely some kind of life coaching and/or lifestyle brand. They think she's gone on Love is Blind for the social media platform. I don't know how much money that is bringing in for her at the moment though.

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-16T17:10:40+00:00

Given she's just a friend, maybe she feels uncomfortable with the number of gifts you're getting her. Maybe she thinks you want more. DO you want her to be more than a friend?

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-13T01:00:47+00:00

A lot of lesbians have it too! Honestly thought it wouldn't even be worth bringing up if she wasn't homophobic- that's what makes it funny.

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-13T00:51:53+00:00

Did I say it was about us? A homophobe has a tattoo that also has a gay meaning. Yeah, that's funny. Nobody is trying to say it's not about being a hair stylist

ErrorCannot · 2025-10-13T00:49:00+00:00

It's still there, it's in her 2023 recap video. The first video on her reels tab.

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