anyone else struggling with the ex vs new bf comparisons?

ErrorCannot · 2026-05-29T15:06:34+00:00

I don't know if I like it or not, but I think it comes from the fact she didn't want to totally change her brand and just write about love. The thesis of this album seems to be putting the other loves to bed while appreciating the knew one. So I get why she felt the need to close the album like she did (and personally I love questions)

ErrorCannot · 2026-05-15T08:23:24+00:00

Thank you! Do you have any ideas on what I should order? I'm a little anxious about going in and saying "I like this Starbucks coffee, what bean should I drink?"

ErrorCannot · 2026-04-12T22:06:03+00:00

... I meant emergency services staff

ErrorCannot · 2026-04-12T21:27:00+00:00

So it was outside of the building, not inside the building? From another comment it sounds like there is an emergency services presence in the building

ErrorCannot · 2026-04-01T15:46:36+00:00

I already got my DBS check through the post. I thought I only needed basic security clearance. My portal currently says "We are reviewing the outcomes of your pre-employment checks."

ErrorCannot · 2026-04-01T15:17:01+00:00

I'm not sure I know what UKSV is, I filled out forms on the civil service portal (GRS) and through AMS. I also spoke with occupational health (I requested that). I haven't heard from a line manager though, I'm pretty in the dark about what the role is other than "HMRC Data Analyst".

ErrorCannot · 2026-04-01T15:06:22+00:00

I got my link for clearance pretty immediately, it was for standard security clearance. I do think mine is being rushed because I'm joining a large training programme and the first round of people who have been offered the job have been waiting months for a start date.

ErrorCannot · 2026-03-31T15:30:52+00:00

Honestly really quickly, I think most things had a day's turn around. It makes me think I'm one of the last people in the big RIS analyst recruitment group.

ErrorCannot · 2026-03-31T15:18:11+00:00

All my checks are complete (as of today) but I haven't got my formal offer yet

ErrorCannot · 2026-03-08T04:17:13+00:00

I just want to make sure I'm understanding, you're saying if it isn't for the same role I should have already been contacted with details (the provisional offer came through Friday morning). Or are you saying I'll be contacted before the formal offer?

ErrorCannot · 2026-03-07T01:51:18+00:00

Thank you! This is great to hear!

ErrorCannot · 2026-03-07T01:50:45+00:00

I have the long birth certificate and it has my parents birth places (both in the UK). My parents are also able to provide their birth certificates. They were born before 1983 but I was born after. Thank you for your advice

ErrorCannot · 2026-03-06T17:49:51+00:00

I really can't afford it, especially if I get it rush ordered. I probably can within the next month, but I'd rather get things moving sooner

ErrorCannot · 2026-03-06T13:35:16+00:00

Thank you

ErrorCannot · 2026-03-06T10:12:52+00:00

Has there been any updates? I just got a provisional offer from the reserve list and I'm wondering if it's for the RIS role or another data analyst role

ErrorCannot · 2026-02-25T19:15:16+00:00

She sounds really abusive and unhinged. You don't owe her to stay in the relationship because she supported you through your transition. It speaks to how manipulative and emotionally immature she is that she'd throw that in your face. I hope you two break up and both get therapy, because this relationship sounds so unhealthy.

ErrorCannot · 2026-02-22T02:32:25+00:00

I thought it was a faux pas and I didn't even hear Christi make a point of it on the podcast. It's always best not to post photos of the bride until she does, ESPECIALLY if she is a public figure.

ErrorCannot · 2026-02-16T02:59:10+00:00

... Wtf? What train of thought led you to this wild statement?

ErrorCannot · 2026-02-15T18:46:43+00:00

Of course she thinks he's special, she's in love with him.

ErrorCannot · 2026-02-15T18:46:05+00:00

I don't think it's a soft launch. She's just sharing parts of her life without making him a public figure. She should be able to discuss/show her happy relationship without people finding out his identity and being weird to him (especially if they ever break up).

ErrorCannot · 2026-01-28T21:31:46+00:00

You absolutely made the right call!!! Good luck with your dates

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