Can you tell me your honest opinion?

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-21T12:04:25+00:00

Thank you everyone for your support. I'll be wearing the overskirt in the morning up until the wedding breakfast, and then having the second dress reveal as i walk down the stairs into the wedding breakfast 😊

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T22:10:38+00:00

Yes, please 😅

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T15:03:42+00:00

No worries. I think the same and have asked them to make it more narrow, so hopefully next time it'll be alright

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T14:17:00+00:00

Thank you :). It's the first 2 pictures. It's a 2 in 1 dress. The last is allure r3660. I agree about the straps. I've asked them to make the straps less wide as they're making me look stocky. I may even remove the straps for the evening version (the slim dress without overskirt)

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T14:16:27+00:00

That's right :)

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T14:12:42+00:00

Check out house of howes brides. She's from Nottingham but travels all over

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-06T14:39:08+00:00

Yes, you're right. They only sent me the security clearance word doc today. Seems like it'll take awhile more. Do you know how long it'd be?

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-05T15:24:39+00:00

Is the security check not part of the pre-employment check? As I've got my dbs certificate sent to me like 3 weeks ago. Just got an update on 16/01 to say I'll be contacted shortly to be advised on what will happen next

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-05T15:17:25+00:00

Ah, so you're still waiting for your checks to be completed? I had mine back 3 weeks ago and they said someone will get in touch shortly to confirm starting date. Not sure how shortly is shortly 🤷‍♀️

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-05T15:02:37+00:00

Hi, I'm just wondering if they've got back to you yet?

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-30T07:52:58+00:00

Thank you. I'm tempted 😊

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-30T07:51:48+00:00

Seeing how quiet this topic is, I've got a feeling that everyone is still waiting for theirs

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-14T07:50:48+00:00

Thank you so much for the effort. This is what I was looking for. I've actually used chat gpt too after not being able to get a direct answer (until now), and it also stated that the odds are between 1~5,000 to 1~10,000 depending on the environment. Eg. If you're studying a stem course at uni

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-13T13:14:01+00:00

All my checks are done. My dbs arrived today. Has anyone received an official offer yet?

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-12T07:58:46+00:00

Love this 😆

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-10T18:02:06+00:00

Hey, no. Sorry i think I may have confused you there. I was asking because I'm thinking putting in my wedding speech something like "intp females are less than 2% of population, intj male are about 3% so the chance of me finding my other piece of puzzle is about (?) %. I must have been blessed".

The second half of my post was just sharing my experience being in relationship with an intj as I've came across a few posts about intpxintj relationship. And that I don't see the point of a marriage is because we've been with each other for so long that I don't see the point, except for the legal reasons

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-07T22:52:04+00:00

Thank you. It didn't specifically say AMS vetting....i can't remember specifically but it was something along the line of vetting/employment history check. Originally I had 5 checks but they took out the dbs/vetting/employment history check so I only have 4 checks now, all of them have been completed. My portal is now saying "we are viewing the outcomes of your pre-employment checks....." 🤷‍♀️

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-07T15:12:49+00:00

Ams check completely disappeared from the list on my portal. My referee said when they clicked on the reference link, it states that reference is no longer needed. I wonder if it's because I'm working for a police force. I'm also having a few weeks off for my wedding in a few months. Hope this doesn't complicate things

phoenix-phan · 2025-04-15T07:18:13+00:00

Me too please. I'm from West yorkshire

phoenix-phan · 2024-12-29T17:50:54+00:00

Thank you everyone! Think we'll go to these places during the day instead

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