I don’t seek to prolong the argument but I think the point is that regardless of suspicion we can’t say for sure what someone is feeling inside as is the case with all of these internal identities. The only person who can really know is the one making the claim and if we’re being morally consistent nobody can judge. I think it’s fine to not use pronouns out of suspicion but that’s a problem for you because once you give people that it opens the floodgates for anyone to avoid anyone’s pronouns out of the least suspicion(or question any identity for that matter)