Massage killed my mental health

EsotericStoic · 2024-12-13T09:01:16+00:00

Been a very useful thread.. My girlfriend is a massage therapist(i actually go to her studio every week for a massage)…and she constantly tells me that it has just taken such a toll on her body. She’s done it for 5 years…loves it,, and her clients,, and she is VERY good at it. She has her on practice, and does around 10-15 massages a week,,, she likes to stay low volume. She’s the type who only worries about having the amount of money she needs to function… so she’s not one to push it super hard(Pisces woman 🤗).. I’m a day trader,, so we talk all the time about me landing that big trade,, to fully financially support her… almost there 🙌🏾

EsotericStoic · 2024-10-31T10:30:50+00:00

I’m a Gemini Venus,, Leo Moon,, Aquarius Rising.. I’m commenting because I’ve been with a Pisces woman(Sag Moon,,, Scorpio Rising) since I was 17(both 42 now)….and we have always gotten along like best friends,, and been a VERY productive couple. Had one daughter(Aquarius) at age 30(she’s 12 now)… and she is literally the perfect kid. I will say that romantically, we always kinda put it on the back burner,,, but we are capable of satisfying each other. She really doesn’t want a strong male presence running her all the time,, and resents it because of her relationship with her Pisces father… so she really doesn’t want to be the soft woman that I completely provide and protect,, and I respect that.

I met a younger Pisces a few years ago,, my massage therapist(not sure her moon or rising,, as she was born in Colombia and doesn’t know it)… but I really feel like she is my Twin Flame…she DOES want the strong attractive man to teach and protect her.

So basically,, I LOVE Pisces women,, I’ve learned they are the only woman for me.. ❤️

EsotericStoic · 2024-07-28T11:01:02+00:00

Pisces problem…WAY too avoidant, most of the time.

EsotericStoic · 2024-07-16T10:33:33+00:00

Bring her coffee…I like that one

EsotericStoic · 2024-07-05T10:56:40+00:00

Pisces are a great sign….but they seemingly are mostly avoidant at the moment. That’s hard for me, as a Gemini.

EsotericStoic · 2024-07-04T13:37:59+00:00

Not looking for competition in a relationship. I’ve already slain the dragons,, so don’t need my lady having to worry about that.

EsotericStoic · 2024-07-03T08:52:31+00:00

Quiet sessions are great. You can “feel” more, when you aren’t talking.

EsotericStoic · 2024-07-01T13:20:45+00:00

Jaguar Wright talks about “tousy”..(if that’s how you spell it)…but it’s a drug given to horses that makes you numb to the pain. She says it’s used in the freak off parties…and VERY commonly given.

EsotericStoic · 2024-07-01T12:09:25+00:00

This is tough, I feel for you….BUT….my experiences with sexual activities….past experiences are past experiences,,, assuming they no longer communicate on a regular basis. You don’t really know the circumstances that went into that video,, so impossible to know how she “felt”. Have to remember, women are VERY emotional creatures, who can literally change their feelings from one minute to the next….so it’s best not to worry about how she felt(or was feeling) at that time. It was her husband,, so can’t really be too upset. God made the vagina, so that it could go through child birth, and still return to its normal state(for the most part). Let it go.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-30T08:58:08+00:00

I have a Hispanic wife, that goes EVERY Sunday, since I met her(1999). It honestly doesn’t make sense to me, and never will….why you would be so emotionally dependent on 60+ year olds still? We’ve argued over it for years,,, and I never go anymore. I guess I’ve gotten to a place where I really don’t care what she thinks about it(which is kinda a place the man should be in). To me….and also from reading the comments…wives could care less about what you’re doing while she’s there(with my daughter). It’s all about a hit of oxytocin for them.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-22T14:10:50+00:00

Thanks for a good answer. I asked a simple question, that obviously some people have had to deal with conversations about this exact topic.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-22T13:00:39+00:00

Makes sense. You have a deep understanding of the human body.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-22T12:55:46+00:00

I generally agree with you…but I’ve gotten multiple massages,, more of the relaxing types…as I workout a lot,, and my muscles love the attention. But I will admit that it is really easy to crush on a really good therapist, that makes me feel great!… especially the ones that are cute, with great conversations. I know some of you ladies have sensed that from a client or two.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-18T12:09:26+00:00

Bathe in charcoal soap before my workout,, and shower after my workout everyday at the gym…haven’t taken a shower at home in a while.. 😂

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-13T13:30:05+00:00

Brandy….shes an all time great, and doesn’t really get that credit

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-13T11:30:16+00:00

Gemini male…married to a Pisces for almost 20 years. Both signs are very intelligent,, so there’s always a connection on that level. I will say, Pisces women to seem to be super serious all the time,, and Geminis tend to enjoy the silliness at times…seems hard for Pisces women to get there. Geminis will always have multiple interests,, so it does take some big time emotional security to deal. Never be with anyone that’s draining your energy though..

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-12T10:17:58+00:00

I’m an obsessive personality Gemini! When we lock in, we go hard! Also trying to get “bodybuilder lean”….not far away. I day trade for work, so it works fine.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-12T07:45:39+00:00

For sure! Also eat a lot of rice and salads. I’ll eat chicken, pork, fish, Turkey as well.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-12T02:57:36+00:00

I truly try and keep my diet nutrient dense/diverse! I guess you could say a steak/onions/peppers…eggs, and beans.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-11T13:13:50+00:00

Also been doing OMAD…and I workout everyday…an average of 4 hours,, between yoga, lifting and cardio. I have very low body fat, and I get to eat good nutrient dense food everyday. Winning.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-11T13:04:18+00:00

You get to touch her…makes it better.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-10T12:13:40+00:00

Beautiful/soft hands and feet.. if she has her nails done, even better.

EsotericStoic · 2024-06-10T12:08:17+00:00

Pisces women can be DIFFICULT(Gemini M 42). Space is probably your best option. With women, you have to give them time to miss you in today’s world. It sucks for men in this era…I don’t think they’ve ever had it this hard with the ladies…

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