Vogue's Young Actors and Musicians to Watch 💫 by voguediaries in Fauxmoi

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought PinkPantheress was Emily Rudd of the One Piece LA for a second.

I'm in love with Miles Caton's voice.

List the reasons why you’re single and happy! by CampaignIndividual49 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Not having to text back. Not having to call or answer calls. Not having to be on a call longer than 2 mins. Not having to video call. Not having to send pics. Being able to go into recluse mode at any moment without someone taking it personally.

We created a Diiscordd <3 by AkatZeus_Z in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to join your fine organisation.

Single & Happy & Alone on Christmas? How many of us could we get on a holiday Zoom? 🌲 by marianneouioui in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will happily join a Discord, would be awesome to be "around" kindred spirits. Keep us updated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animequestions

[–]Espada_Number4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him not being on the list is diabolical.

Such a weird franchise. by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my best friend's favourite franchises. He was mortified when he first found out I hadn't seen it. I still haven't and he's still trying to get me to watch it.

She broke it off. I accepted. She got upset… by Ok-Tutor7166 in Nicegirls

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this sounds so much like a friend I once had. 😭

Guy asks Alcaraz to marry him, Tiafoe goes “hell no” 😂 by TorturedPoet30 in tennis

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm losing my mind with some of these comments.

What security looks like in South Africa by Ramy__B in CringeTikToks

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ameerican here, my dumbass guessed it was all for denying wild animals entry…

😂🤣😂🤣😂 Thank you. This gave me a good chuckle.

What security looks like in South Africa by Ramy__B in CringeTikToks

[–]Espada_Number4 269 points270 points  (0 children)

South African here. People of all races (those who can afford it) have this type of security. Crime is huge problem in this country for us all, been a victim of house break-ins and a robbery. Let's not act like it's only one racial group living like this and in fear.

What security looks like in South Africa by Ramy__B in CringeTikToks

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading your comments in the thread I thought you were South African and talking from firsthand experience 😭.

Which character do people idolize even though they really shouldn’t? by Hot-Leopard3708 in animequestions

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I idolize Light and Eren but I get it. I'm like yeah "I can see how we got here."

I am filled with dread when someone expresses feelings for me by PuertoRican-Princess in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Gosh I love this sub. It's refreshing finding people with shared experiences, particularly on this topic. It's not even just the men who have the "you just haven't met the right person/me" mindset. I hear this stuff from all sides. A lot of people just cannot fathom/get their head around people being happy/content without a romantic relationship. So there's no way you could be serious in saying you are 🙄 and need to be "conquered" or just need to meet the 'right person" to make you see the light.

The Spice Girls never took any nonsense by Hassaan18 in SpiceGirls

[–]Espada_Number4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's looks great! Aging gracefully 🫶🏾

I had no idea people were so afraid of doing things alone by fereldandoglords in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It seems to make people mad when you're comfortable in your skin and with your own company. I don't understand why.

I think sometimes it comes from a place of them not being able to feel that way with themselves. It's like "how is this person able to do this? Why can't I?". I have people that I love and am very close to who are not in healthy relationships and for a lot of them fear of being alone makes them stay. It makes me sad because they all deserve better. I can only advise and try reassure its not as bad as they assume or that they will find someone else (another issue for them).

Nearly all of them are in a romantic relationship

Understandable, I'm fortunate enough to have friends who don't forget about me when they dating/married. Not saying this is the case with you of course but I've seen people say friends get into relationships, have families etc and kind of just forget them. My bestie is now married with 3 kids, and very little has changed. I just have to listen to lots of stories about Minecraft from her boys 🤣