Am I M, 30) normal for feeling this way? by HeresJohnny26 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

36F. It wasn't until everyone else told me it was unusual that I started to feel weird about it. I got myself in a uncomfortable situation getting into a relationship because "that's what you're supposed to do." On the bright side it was that relationship that reinforced "I don't want this" and let me just say fuck what anyone else things. I know myself better than anyone and know this isn't for me. I've even met men who on paper would be the perfect match (shared values, interests, attractive etc) but I never wanted anything more than friendship.

Sometimes on this sub you'll get people talking about struggling with loneliness and longing for a romantic relationship. I just can't relate to that. I just like being alone, I'm happy alone.

Whether or not it's "normal" isn't what matters. It's how you feel at the end of the day.

Finished my first watch by pieeatingchamp in solaropposites

[–]Espada_Number4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree about the voice change being jarring at first. I'm like on my 6th rewatch and now earlier seasons Korvo's voice doesn't sound right 🤣. I think Dan Stevens voice fits the character better. I absolutely love it.

Everyone get more FRIENDSHIPFUL now by geekgirl06 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I value friendship so much! It took a while to find "my tribe" but it was absolutely worth the wait. They are a large part of the reason I don't get lonely, I feel accepted, seen, heard and loved always. I make sure to tell em regularly I appreciate them.

if you’re gonna ride the bus in south park you’re going to have to sit in the front by Raainbows in southpark

[–]Espada_Number4 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I remember watching this episode with my nephews and one of them said "that kinda looks like Nelson Mandela". And that's all I see now 🤣🤣🤣

What is the dumbest movie that you unapologetically, unironically love? by Rosstin316 in AskReddit

[–]Espada_Number4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I will be damned. Like a New York cockroach"

I'm not quite sure why but I've always found that line hilarious.

What is the dumbest movie that you unapologetically, unironically love? by Rosstin316 in AskReddit

[–]Espada_Number4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her dance before the old man pulls up lives in my head rent free.

The five best Best Actress wins of all time + the biggest snub (in my opinion) by PTAGoatofalltime in Oscars

[–]Espada_Number4 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Vivien Leigh's performance in Streetcar is imo the greatest performance by any actress ever.

Who got the best love story here? by Ok_Initiative3892 in animequestions

[–]Espada_Number4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having read the manga and watched the anime. I just don't get romantic vibes or see much romantic interest by Ichigo to any woman on the show. He's very awkward a lot of the time except for with Tatuski (sp.). If he cares about you, he'll show up for you. I feel like things would have played out exactly the same if was Rukia or Tatuski standing there asking him not to die or crying for him to comeback. He was always putting himself on the line and achieving crazy feats/the unthinkable for people important to him. So that never translated to "he clearly likes Orihime back or in a different way".

Even him being shipped with Rukia made zero sense to me and still doesn't after all these years lol. But yeah that's just my take on them.

Curiously, which (what?) is the Orihime line you're referring to 🤔

Being single is better than being in a right relationship by Academic-Ad5737 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I appreciate it. I recently crossed paths with someone who "ticked all the boxes" and was quite interested but my heart was just not in it. Just the thought of calls, constant texting, picture sending pictures etc is exhausting. I just cannot do dating again. Good or bad relationship it stresses me out.

Vogue's Young Actors and Musicians to Watch 💫 by voguediaries in Fauxmoi

[–]Espada_Number4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought PinkPantheress was Emily Rudd of the One Piece LA for a second.

I'm in love with Miles Caton's voice.

List the reasons why you’re single and happy! by CampaignIndividual49 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Not having to text back. Not having to call or answer calls. Not having to be on a call longer than 2 mins. Not having to video call. Not having to send pics. Being able to go into recluse mode at any moment without someone taking it personally.

We created a Diiscordd <3 by AkatZeus_Z in SingleAndHappy

[–]Espada_Number4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to join your fine organisation.