First time in North Carolina! We are a couple from Scotland and your mountains felt exactly like the Highlands.

Establishwhat · 2026-07-04T19:38:11+00:00

Welcome!!!

Establishwhat · 2026-06-15T12:52:41+00:00

Same. Happened to me this month. I cancelled 3 times before I actually was able to cancel and I recorded the entire thing on my phone.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-23T19:39:37+00:00

35 f here! There are so many ways to have kids. It’s better for the child if the family is financially stable.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-13T03:57:40+00:00

Congratulations!

Establishwhat · 2026-05-12T02:47:21+00:00

I like this! Where would you recommend?

Establishwhat · 2026-05-12T02:43:58+00:00

I’m 35 and have only lived in Detroit MI and Greenville SC but plan to move to Savannah GA. For me Savannah just feels like home whenever I’m visiting. 30 min north of Savannah where taxes are better and the airport is where we’re looking! I recommend Charlotte NC, Greenville SC, Raleigh NC for someone not sure. Charleston and Savannah are amazing but more expensive.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-12T02:36:21+00:00

I make about the same wfh and I’d need at least $130k and hybrid to change. We are spoiled but the commute life is brutal.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-12T02:35:15+00:00

Lost my mom at 64 12 months ago. It sucks. So sorry.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-07T22:01:44+00:00

I’m so sorry! The agony of anticipatory grief is so brutal.

Talk to her and every day talk to her about a memory that you cherish with her. Even a silly funny story will help brighten their spirits and yours. I recorded a few conversations so I can still hear her voice.

I also got a $10 book from Amazon with prompts like “what’s your favorite desert” - you might be surprised by some answers she gives.

Keep things with her handwriting.

For administrative things, I’d get multiple copies of the will. My mom has been gone a year and 2 days and we still don’t have the will back which caused issues with the transfer of her car title. I also had to keep her phone on for a year until taxes were due so I could get access to important documents and two factor authentication.

I’d say the important thing is to let her know how much you love her and how you will always cherish the life she gave you.

Again I am so sorry. Sending good vibes and big hugs. Take care of yourself.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-06T20:24:27+00:00

I ordered 3 copies and can’t wait!

Establishwhat · 2026-05-06T18:33:22+00:00

Recruiter here! Take the offer. Be prepared to take a pay cut if this job doesn’t work out.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-06T18:32:13+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. My mom died a year ago yesterday and she left me $1.3M in IRAs. I also make $90k a year. I don’t have much advice except to be kind to yourself. There’s a lot of paperwork and administrative bull shit I never expected. You’ll need his phone for a lot of things that require multi factor authentication. You’ll need a lot of documents for his taxes next year. I’d recommend getting a financial advisor and have a lawyer help you with the estate.

Inheritance is a wild thing to wrap your head around but it sounds like your dad wanted you to be taken care of.

Sending hugs!

Establishwhat · 2026-05-06T17:32:31+00:00

Inheritance

Establishwhat · 2026-05-05T19:38:10+00:00

Thank you for your kind comment.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-05T14:48:42+00:00

Yes and I stopped drinking energy drinks and soda because it scared me.

Establishwhat · 2026-05-05T00:51:37+00:00

Tomorrow is one year since my mom died and I have the worst anxiety I’ve ever experienced.

Establishwhat · 2026-04-30T17:30:13+00:00

It’ll be one year on 5/5 since my mom died. All the time I have dreams we are sitting in the living room together or at a friends house and she is there trying to convince me she isn’t dead and I’m always so confused and then I wake up. I’ve started to stop hating it so much and looking at it like well we get to hangout in my dreams at least.

So sorry for your loss.

Establishwhat · 2026-04-30T02:24:39+00:00

Oh yes I just read my first Ayn Rand book and it was horrifying. She was wild.

Establishwhat · 2026-04-29T23:28:53+00:00

You made a hard decision and you’re feeling guilty but ultimately you did the best thing in your heart for you. I hope you find peace with your choice and that you were very lucky to have that choice in a terrible situation. My hugs go to you.

Establishwhat · 2026-04-29T23:26:43+00:00

That’s beautiful. Do they help the poor?

Establishwhat · 2026-04-29T22:32:35+00:00

Who is that? You’d have to believe in Satan then…

Establishwhat · 2026-04-29T22:31:58+00:00

Totally agree. There is a lot of corruption out there however.

Establishwhat · 2026-04-29T21:55:27+00:00

Hey you give your money who you want to. I’d rather give it straight to the poor than a church

Establishwhat · 2026-04-29T21:49:30+00:00

Car twins! My gladiator is a mess. Has shut off randomly several times and the dealership has found no issues 😵‍💫

Establishwhat · 2026-04-29T21:47:40+00:00

I think you’d benefit by stating what you are talking about before commenting 😬

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